Scene gays turn me off

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 3:41 AM GMT
    I find this so frustrating...I dont know if anyone else has the same problem or not though.

    I find that the way a lot of gay guys dress and act turn me off. I go to a straight club and I will see sexy ass guys left, right and centre, and then I go to a gay club and I will see 1 cute guy if I am lucky.

    I have come to the conclusion that I am turned off by how a lot of gay guys chose to dress (super tight, low ass v neck, gay logo t-shirt with an orange tan and try too hard hair style). and if it is not the way they dress, then it is their gay mannerisms.

    and im not even getting at fem gays...I see plenty of masc gays who dress as I pointed out above.

    If only I could have me a straight boy.

    Does anyone else find themselfs with this same problem?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 3:45 AM GMT
    maybe its the wanting what I cant have thing icon_neutral.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 3:45 AM GMT
    cold saidI don't think anybody on this site can empathise with that. To be honest, I'm stumped - this issue has never been raised before.

    Is that sarcasm? Is that the word I am looking for?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 3:47 AM GMT
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidI find this so frustrating...I dont know if anyone else has the same problem or not though.

    I find that the way a lot of gay guys dress and act turn me off. I go to a straight club and I will see sexy ass guys left, right and centre, and then I go to a gay club and I will see 1 cute guy if I am lucky.

    I have come to the conclusion that I am turned off by how a lot of gay guys chose to dress (super tight, low ass v neck, gay logo t-shirt with an orange tan and try too hard hair style). and if it is not the way they dress, then it is their gay mannerisms.

    If only I could have me a straight boy.

    Does anyone else find themselfs with this same problem?


    actually, I kind of share the same point of view but not to that extent. I agree with you in the sense that I don't find myself aroused at all by how they act but I can be close friends with them. You aren't alone.
  • swedeinusa

    Posts: 285

    May 12, 2011 3:48 AM GMT
    I..I...I like my low v-necks.
    icon_sad.gif
  • creature

    Posts: 5197

    May 12, 2011 3:48 AM GMT
    cee87 said
    cold saidI don't think anybody on this site can empathise with that. To be honest, I'm stumped - this issue has never been raised before.

    Is that sarcasm? Is that the word I am looking for?


    That's the word icon_smile.gif This thread should be fun. Like the others.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 3:57 AM GMT
    shut up cold
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 4:01 AM GMT
    cold said
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidshut up cold


    magikarp-swear.gif

    Gyrados aint shit
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 4:21 AM GMT
    cold said
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidshut up cold


    magikarp-swear.gif


    LOL!! WIN! icon_lol.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 4:32 AM GMT
    people love dickriding cold on this forum huh
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 4:35 AM GMT
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidpeople love dickriding cold on this forum huh


    Last time I rode his dick, I found it to be quite pleasurable.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 4:35 AM GMT
    weird, looks like he'd have a small dick to me
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 4:42 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidpeople love dickriding cold on this forum huh

    Well, he's a pretty awesome guy with a wicked sense of humour. icon_smile.gif I'm proud to call him an RJ friend.

    I don't think anyone was actively trollin' you, or anything. It just is a very well covered topic that comes up time and time again and usually ends in a shit-storm of butthurt effeminazis whining about hating on fem guys and the other side saying "no, and so what...I like what I like."

    Anyway, to your OP....lots of guys think that way. And maybe it is "wanting what you can't have". But maybe some straight guys just have a demeanor that some of us find sexy.


    Yea I figured as much after some of the replies lol. o well
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 5:18 AM GMT
    Time to find another fishing spot. The type of guys you're looking for are out there. It's just that you're looking in the wrong places, and spending your time criticizing the type of guys you don't like. Maybe consider joining a local gay sports or social club?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 5:18 AM GMT
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidweird, looks like he'd have a small dick to me

    You sir, are a hater. Welcome to hilarity one oh one.
    Some of us here post in done-to-death threads sarcastically because we're tired of seeing them.

    annnnd fyi...
    cold is not small. ;)
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidI find that the way a lot of gay guys dress and act turn me off. I go to a straight club and I will see sexy ass guys left, right and centre, and then I go to a gay club and I will see 1 cute guy if I am lucky.


    Yup. I'm surprised from moving to Los Angeles to New York so far all I see is hipsters and a bunch of fuglies at gay bars...and yup more uglies than in LA. Shocked. I'm going to have to play outdoor sports to find a decent gay. Or just date a Muslim that's in the closet. You never see them at gay bars (in fear of being killed by their family or whatever) but they're very loyal and can be very masculine.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 6:05 AM GMT
    JAKEBENSON said
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidI find that the way a lot of gay guys dress and act turn me off. I go to a straight club and I will see sexy ass guys left, right and centre, and then I go to a gay club and I will see 1 cute guy if I am lucky.


    Yup. I'm surprised from moving to Los Angeles to New York so far all I see is hipsters and a bunch of fuglies at gay bars...and yup more uglies than in LA. Shocked. I'm going to have to play outdoor sports to find a decent gay. Or just date a Muslim that's in the closet. You never see them at gay bars (in fear of being killed by their family or whatever) but they're very loyal and can be very masculine.


    LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 6:09 AM GMT
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidpeople love dickriding cold on this forum huh


    You've gotta be shitting me. Do a simple search and you'll find countless threads on this subject, there's no dick riding here... well, HAH, yeah there is! Sup, cold, baby. icon_wink.gif


  • May 12, 2011 6:13 AM GMT
    That's why I don't go to "clubs", scene kids aren't me, with their shirts cut on the sides, eye liner, and glitter everywhere...

    I like to go out in a pair of nice jeans, nice fitting shirt, hair just right, clean shaven, and looking well presentable... I don't scream gay, just I care about my appearance... I like our local bars, laid back, good music, there are people just hanging out...

    Sometimes the scene kids come in, but they are fun sometimes, their little lingo talk is kinda cute... But at the end of the day I get what your sayin', just try a bar or something...
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 6:22 AM GMT
    JAKEBENSON said
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidI find that the way a lot of gay guys dress and act turn me off. I go to a straight club and I will see sexy ass guys left, right and centre, and then I go to a gay club and I will see 1 cute guy if I am lucky.


    Yup. I'm surprised from moving to Los Angeles to New York so far all I see is hipsters and a bunch of fuglies at gay bars...and yup more uglies than in LA. Shocked. I'm going to have to play outdoor sports to find a decent gay. Or just date a Muslim that's in the closet. You never see them at gay bars (in fear of being killed by their family or whatever) but they're very loyal and can be very masculine.


    ... or some just prefer not to drink especially in between lunatics? Like me. icon_wink.gif

    I gotta agree the gay scenes in NYC are some of the worst. The only decent gays I have found are at a workplace who dress and speak properly, but they're such a minority. I have to get out of here.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 6:24 AM GMT
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidshut up cold


    Nah, you shut up. Fuck off, too icon_biggrin.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 6:42 AM GMT
    Let me guess, you also hate pop music, celeb stories, and fashion.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 6:47 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidshut up cold


    Nah, you shut up. Fuck off, too icon_biggrin.gif


    I know right? This guy be comin' up in hurr with a bad attitude from the get-go. SAKURITY!!!

    Bon-Qui-Qui.jpg
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 6:48 AM GMT
    KardioKing said
    Ariodante said
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidshut up cold


    Nah, you shut up. Fuck off, too icon_biggrin.gif


    I know right? This guy be comin' up in hurr with a bad attitude from the get-go. SAKURITY!!!

    Bon-Qui-Qui.jpg

    You can have a coke.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    May 12, 2011 6:56 AM GMT
    nycam86 said
    JAKEBENSON said
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidI find that the way a lot of gay guys dress and act turn me off. I go to a straight club and I will see sexy ass guys left, right and centre, and then I go to a gay club and I will see 1 cute guy if I am lucky.


    Yup. I'm surprised from moving to Los Angeles to New York so far all I see is hipsters and a bunch of fuglies at gay bars...and yup more uglies than in LA. Shocked. I'm going to have to play outdoor sports to find a decent gay. Or just date a Muslim that's in the closet. You never see them at gay bars (in fear of being killed by their family or whatever) but they're very loyal and can be very masculine.


    ... or some just prefer not to drink especially in between lunatics? Like me. icon_wink.gif

    I gotta agree the gay scenes in NYC are some of the worst. The only decent gays I have found are at a workplace who dress and speak properly, but they're such a minority. I have to get out of here.


    Yeah speaking of ugly, all I see in my neighborhood is fugly ass Jamaicans and pale hairy Euro Hipsters. WHERE ARE THE FUCKING LATINOS?!?!? Screw proper etiquette. I just want a Latino. I don't care if he's a thug. Speaking proper is lame when I can date a dude with a thick Bronx or Brooklyn dialect.