The price of admission

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    May 13, 2011 4:23 PM GMT
    im sure this has been posted here before but I wanned to share this talk cause I find it to be quite interesting


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    May 13, 2011 5:44 PM GMT
    I love that video. I think he's bang on.
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    May 13, 2011 6:20 PM GMT
    He raises some good points. Thanks for sharing.
  • TheAlchemixt

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    May 13, 2011 6:21 PM GMT
    Yeah, thanks for sharing that was a really interesting clip.
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    May 13, 2011 8:05 PM GMT
    I heart Dan Savage.
  • Anto

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    May 13, 2011 8:48 PM GMT
    I don't agree with the lying part. Just be who you are from the start.
  • havingfunmtl9...

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    May 13, 2011 9:00 PM GMT
    Good video - I am not sure the swearing is adding anything but the point is well constructed.
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    May 13, 2011 9:07 PM GMT
    havingfunmtl946 saidGood video - I am not sure the swearing is adding anything but the point is well constructed.


    da nasty man said wude words. I will haz sulk and cry in pìllow

    kbai
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    May 13, 2011 9:26 PM GMT
    charlitos


    So....what flaws are you not willing to put up with? ....no more than 5...
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    May 13, 2011 9:30 PM GMT
    havingfunmtl946 saidGood video - I am not sure the swearing is adding anything but the point is well constructed.


    The swearing wasn't really overbearing and, to me, added a bit of sincerity in what he was communicating.
  • metta

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    May 13, 2011 9:40 PM GMT
    My 5:
    - substance abuse (drinking, smoking, drugs, etc.)
    - dishonesty (lying, cheating, stealing)
    - physical/verbal abuse
    - inability to love, feel compassion, feel empathy
    - bad hygiene
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    May 13, 2011 10:28 PM GMT
    metta8 said
    charlitos


    So....what flaws are you not willing to put up with? ....no more than 5...


    lol...personality wise?

    1 - Addiction(drugs)
    2 - Low intelligence when it comes to interpersonal relationships
    3 - Bad sex

    thats it
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    May 13, 2011 10:32 PM GMT
    havingfunmtl946 saidGood video - I am not sure the swearing is adding anything but the point is well constructed.


    Thats part of his personality and it adds character to what he says(also 99% finds it to be a sign of honesty of character). By pointing out his swearing you kinda proved his point that some people are just shallow when it comes to judge others.
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    May 13, 2011 10:39 PM GMT
    1. Active Addictions
    2. Verbal/Physical Abuse
    3. Poor Hygiene
    4. Lack of self suffiency
    5. Lack of compassion for themselves and others

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    May 14, 2011 12:16 AM GMT
    tsk, stand ups with their pauses icon_rolleyes.gif


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    May 14, 2011 2:41 AM GMT
    Who is Dan Savage?
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    May 14, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    5ebastian saidsome self-righteous queen that thinks the plight of gay people is caused by the african american community (some black people voted for prop8 )


    Fuck 'im! I'll never forgive him for that shit he pulled after Prop H8 passed! That is unless, of course, he gives a sincere apology.
  • Anto

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    May 16, 2011 10:01 AM GMT
    what was it that he did?
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    May 16, 2011 10:12 AM GMT
    charlitos said(also 99% finds it to be a sign of honesty of character).


    I've never heard that before and have never felt that way. I just look at swearing as something people have assimilated from others to make them feel more as part of the group or adult-like. Dan seems kind of like an emotional thinker. The lying part even later in relationship just to feel like it's the same person isn't honest. It's like self-deception or ego self-defense in order to tolerate your partner icon_confused.gif