U ever wished that only this time i want to read ur mind???

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    May 13, 2011 11:47 PM GMT
    Here's the thing...

    I've been knowing this person for 2 years now, he is hot to me and sexy to me, I like him sooo sooo much, he is fun to be with, we talk we connect but we never talked abt our families and our probs with them (mainly work and politics and sports).

    So everytime we go out he takes me to a new place and he pays a lot for me (drinks, chocolate but not when its a big check, we split it)

    He likes some girly music (not Lady Gaga style but something like Avril Lavigne) and he does lots of things that makes me think: is he really into me???

    P.S: he doesn't know i'm gay so am I (we talk as if we are both straight) (We're in Egypt for God sake)

    To sum up... What should i do??? I really wish i can read his mind to know what he thinks abt me and then i will give up mind reading... i will take it from there!!!
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    May 14, 2011 1:24 AM GMT
    Umm...is it common for Egyptian men to buy other men drinks and chocolate on a consistent basis?

    If the answer is no, then he's probably gay and also into you. BUT, you'll never know until you make a move...
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    May 14, 2011 1:32 AM GMT
    aerovaulter saidUmm...is it common for Egyptian men to buy other men drinks and chocolate on a consistent basis?

    If the answer is no, then he's probably gay and also into you. BUT, you'll never know until you make a move...

    agree with this, just don't over read into things he does and notice the little things that will start the alarm he may be u know gay or bi
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    May 14, 2011 1:39 AM GMT
    If you feel comfortable with him maybe you should tell him you are gay...see if it goes anywhere. Maybe he is gay also and there is an attraction or maybe it will just further deepen your friendship.
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    May 14, 2011 3:12 PM GMT
    It is not common between Egyptian, but we kinda mutually do it out of being gentle and polite. But he does it more than I do it for him...

    Also i dunno any moves to do to make him notice?? I'm so NAIVE with relationships...

    I can't tell him I'm gay because if he wasn't then its it! I dun thnk there is any straight man in here wud be friends with a gay man!

    SO what do u think guys???
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    May 14, 2011 9:55 PM GMT
    aerovaulter saidUmm...is it common for Egyptian men to buy other men drinks and chocolate on a consistent basis?

    If the answer is no, then he's probably gay and also into you. BUT, you'll never know until you make a move...


    it's common in egypt to show bromance in public... lol.. whenever I go to egypt my older cousin spoils me to everything. He is straight and does not know I am gay but if you were to take the things he does to me in public and do it in Canada, they would think he is my bf.

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    May 14, 2011 10:15 PM GMT
    Well , I don't think so ... you know we already doing these things together ...
    Most of my friends are hugging and kissing me ... but that doesn't mean they r gays ... and Since we r in Egypt , you need to be more sure before u take any Step ...
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    May 14, 2011 10:25 PM GMT
    Yes, i know very well... Its so confusing though, thats why i wish i can read his mind... coz they way he speaks to me, some words he says some songs he makes me listen to... i have signals everywhere and yet i can't make a move or seem to make a move... I dunno its driving me crazy people!!!!!!!!
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    May 14, 2011 10:38 PM GMT
    Hum , You can start to explore his mind a bit ... Ask him about his Future life .. Marriage .. Sex ...even ask him about his Opinion about gays (say any Excuse to open this subject like u saw a TV program )
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    May 15, 2011 7:30 AM GMT
    He never had a girlfriend. i never saw him talking to a girl on the phone... He said "Malish fi ya 3am" = am not interested because its a hassle and it takes a lot of effort (he said when the right time comes when he is ready he will think abt it)

    Abt his opinions in gays u know akid what he said abt them... bas i wasn't neither agreeing nor rejecting his opinion, i was like Yea somehow...

    So???