dekiruman saidYes I know, It kind of makes your inbox sound like a DNA sample.
What percentage of the guys who look at you actually message you?
What percentage of them do you respond to?
I've been on other dating sites before and like the other guy said, 10% of the guys or less would message me. And out of the guys I'd message, only 5% or less would respond. I feel that a lot of dating sites are mentally unhealthy for people, because the whole messaging/looking/responses issue makes you question your value and self-worth. You end up using these sites to validate your attractiveness or your compatibility in general.
I've learned to take these sites less seriously and to be pessimistically optimistic. We've all heard of the happily ever after stories so they do exist, but we need to have a little more reality when dealing with online dating.
So I don't really message guys anymore lol I wait for them to message me. Its mentally better for me this way. And as far as guys looking at my profile and not messaging me; I do the exact same thing now. I'd rather a guy look at me and never message then me message him and he doesn't respond.