May 15, 2011 1:40 PM GMT
Then when you asked him out after a long time of this flirting and courting, because you thought he was gay and because you thought he was interested, he rejects you, and he tells you he's straight, which really shocks and confuses you. The reason he flirted with you for months and months, and focused all of his attention on you was to see if he could get you, and he liked your attention. Has that ever happened to you? And, is that really something a straight guy would do? Seems energies should focused on females and not males. Would you think you were right in thinking that he was gay? Or, if he was straight, is this normal/common behavior for straight guys?