Do I Bite The Bullet??

  • cheekiboi24

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    May 17, 2011 12:04 AM GMT
    Hi everyone,

    for those that saw my last post a week ago, here's the update & the new problem.........

    We went to see a film, he hid behind his face, kept brushing my arm, I didn't respond, pulled up at the end of my road to drop me off, put the handbrake on, expected a kiss because that's what's happened 3 times before, but I touched his arm & told him I'd text him at the end of the week

    THE UPDATE

    He text me afterwards saying thank you for the evening, really enjoyed the film - that's it! I didn't text him again until Saturday, but he was at a party so I didn't bother him. Asked him if he was free for this coming Sunday, and he doesn't know. This is where I was going to take him out again.

    Now, should this happen & we do go (it's only to the casino which I know he likes), do I take the plunge & ask him what he thinks about me or about the friendship we've put together? I can't get him out of my mind now - to the point where I want to text him first thing in the morning because I'm disappointed that he isn't there when I wake up. I DON'T WANT TO BLOW THIS...........
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    May 17, 2011 5:07 AM GMT
    The early bits are the most delicate. They can be smothered or drowned if not given just the right amount of care and support, but never too much.

    You've done your bit. Let him make a move now. If he doesn't, that's good info too. You have to learn to read the subtleties because (especially with men) actions speak much louder than words.

    You don't have to ask a guy if he is interested because you can tell from how he acts.
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    May 17, 2011 5:10 AM GMT
    Go with what your gut says. In any case you have to BE YOURSELF if you want to end up with this person, date him, or get to know him in any sort of long term sense. Just do your thing. If it's meant to be, it will!
  • cheekiboi24

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    May 18, 2011 12:19 AM GMT
    shortguybeau, thats exactly what I mean. He put the handbrake on & seemed to wait for me to kiss him & I basically just said bye, walked off & didn't look back. Now I don't know what to do.

    I'm a bit unsure about waiting for him to do anything. He's got a lot on & if things carry on the way they are, he's gonna ed up forgetting all about me :-(