Zimboi123 saidSo yesterday I was asking my boyfriend what are his sexual preferences! So I asked him how does he feel about "rimming " ,! So he tells me that he will only do it on a certain type of man! That "type" that was described was not me !! I feel so down now!why not lie and just say no ? Do u guys think I am catching a fit for nothing!I have been so upset ! Am I just being foolish or would you feel offended ?
what this most reminds me of is when a girl might ask me what type of woman I might go for if I were to change teams. For example, I can watch Shakira grind all day long and the idea of eating her out actually seems kinda hot (don't hate me guys). But in reality, i walk by women every day who are similar and never act on it.
What I mean is that you are asking questions on different levels.
If he's never rimmed anyone, it's a theory thing. If you'd asked me when I was 18, I'd have given a similar answer. Now my answer would be completely different. So he's giving an answer to a question he only thinks he knows the answer to.
It would tell me that he's not really done sampling the buffet, even if he is your boyfriend, because he's still thinking in casual terms. If you are thinking in lifeterm, there's no real reason to take anything pleasurable off the menu. That man may be standing next to your deathbed or vice versa, are you really so uptight you're gonna deny him pleasure via the one body he's committed to?