Phone call in the night.

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    May 17, 2011 3:31 PM GMT
    A while ago I got a call in the middle of the night and it went something like this.

    He: Hey, what are you doing.
    Me: Sleeping, it's the middle of the night, what are you up to?
    He: Just drinking... (silence) ...I love you, man.
    Me: I love you too, buddy.
    He: ...
    Me: Was there anything else?
    He: Nah...
    Me: You just called to say you love me?
    He: Yeh...
    Me: Nice, well I'm gonna go back to sleep and I think you should do the same.
    He: Yeah totally.
    Me: Talk to you tomorrow.

    Of course the day after he couldn't remember a thing of what happened the night before.

    It wasn't until recently, I was out drinking with the same guy, that he said some things that triggered the memory of this phone call.

    Did the drunken love exclamations have any further meaning?
    Did I break him off? Was I being rude? I've been going over this in my head.
    I usually take it as a given that what people say when they are drunk doesn't mean a thing.

    So what do you think?
    Did I handle it like a pro or not?
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    May 17, 2011 3:52 PM GMT
    Well, what's this man's relationship with you? A friend ( as in a gay or straight buddy)? A current casual dater?

    curious -Doug
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    May 17, 2011 4:45 PM GMT
    straight buddy who jams my gaydar.
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    May 17, 2011 5:41 PM GMT
    boulderic saidDid I handle it like a pro or not?
    Did you get laid? No? Then you didn't handle it like a pro. icon_wink.gif
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    May 17, 2011 5:47 PM GMT
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