getting better at bottoming

  • newbiebottom

    Posts: 38

    May 17, 2011 10:42 PM GMT
    so i have been getting better at bottoming. at least i dont feel like i am going to have a bowel movement anymore. both of us are tops and we are learning how to bottom for each other. when he first gets inside, it actually feels pretty good; its the deep thrusts that hurt -- a sort of raw pain deep inside. anyone else feel this?
  • Koaa2

    Posts: 1556

    May 17, 2011 11:00 PM GMT
    That can happen sometimes, but with a little more lube, a little more practice and relaxing as you do it more should help. Enjoy!
  • newbiebottom

    Posts: 38

    May 17, 2011 11:53 PM GMT
    not sure its a lube issue. he's gets the whole way in, but when he starts pounding, it hurts inside, not where the sphincter is.
  • SwimBIkeRun94...

    Posts: 480

    May 18, 2011 1:29 AM GMT
    Lube and try to position yourself so he can't bump into the "sides." In other order, ensure his cock is parallel to your hole, if that makes any sense.

    You really need to want it, too.
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    May 19, 2011 3:04 AM GMT
    the deep deep ones that feel like they are hitting ur insides? ... i like them they hurt in a weird good way to me ><
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    May 19, 2011 3:06 AM GMT
    if you don't like it get him to lie you on ur back and to tilt upward while fuckin you .. u should feel it less ... maybe .. at least i did wth my ex.