May 19, 2011 12:44 AM GMT
A few weeks back I signed up for a dating site where I met this guy. We really had good conversations online and it eventually moved to texting. We exchanged numbers at the end of the semester(We are both college students) We texted for a straight week and quickly hit 2000 texts.
He eventually asked me over and I accepted. We ended up spending the entire day together hanging out at his. I also spent the night but nothing happened. The next day I texted him and found out that his friend was in town so naturally our texts slowed up. After this friend left texts started to pick up again but not quite like before. I asked him out on Monday and plans kept falling through and I started to get the impression that he wasn't interested so I told him straight up that it was fine if he didn't want to get together and he just refuted and said that wasn't the case.
So we finally met again and things went well again. During the date we So I leave his apartment and told him to text me and he said likewise. I texted him on Tuesday and things went as normal. I texted him again today at 4:15. It is now almost 9 and I have not heard from him at all. Also just as a side note, throughout this entire time however neither of us have stopped signing onto the dating website. So, obviously I can see him logged on and he has been logged on all day but you can also just log on and leave the computer running similar to AIM.
So, I don't know what to make of it. Is he interested? Is he keeping his options open with me? Or are the other people that he may or may not be talking to on this website him keeping his options open incase I fall through? I'm horrible at dating. I've never been in a real relationship because up till this point in my life i have lived in an ultra-conservative town with little to no prospects. I am not sure how gay dating works and I am having all my heterosexual friends giving me advice but somehow I feel like their experiences don't necessarily translate to the gay dating world. How do I proceed from here because when I am with him he acts extremely interested and especially touchy-feely.
He eventually asked me over and I accepted. We ended up spending the entire day together hanging out at his. I also spent the night but nothing happened. The next day I texted him and found out that his friend was in town so naturally our texts slowed up. After this friend left texts started to pick up again but not quite like before. I asked him out on Monday and plans kept falling through and I started to get the impression that he wasn't interested so I told him straight up that it was fine if he didn't want to get together and he just refuted and said that wasn't the case.
So we finally met again and things went well again. During the date we So I leave his apartment and told him to text me and he said likewise. I texted him on Tuesday and things went as normal. I texted him again today at 4:15. It is now almost 9 and I have not heard from him at all. Also just as a side note, throughout this entire time however neither of us have stopped signing onto the dating website. So, obviously I can see him logged on and he has been logged on all day but you can also just log on and leave the computer running similar to AIM.
So, I don't know what to make of it. Is he interested? Is he keeping his options open with me? Or are the other people that he may or may not be talking to on this website him keeping his options open incase I fall through? I'm horrible at dating. I've never been in a real relationship because up till this point in my life i have lived in an ultra-conservative town with little to no prospects. I am not sure how gay dating works and I am having all my heterosexual friends giving me advice but somehow I feel like their experiences don't necessarily translate to the gay dating world. How do I proceed from here because when I am with him he acts extremely interested and especially touchy-feely.
