running11 saidhaha so none of you have experimented?
Experiment #1 - Time: College years, Place: On Campus bar. Gal drags me on the dance floor, makes out with me, takes me back to her room, tears my clothes off but I couldn't get a hard on. It was exam week and I felt close to suicidal after that.
Experiment #2 - Time: College years, Place: UVa. I was driving a bud back to college when we stopped to visit a very hot friend of his and stayed in his frat house. He thought I was quite a stud for picking up a chick at their party the first night which would have made me feel kind of good, but I had mistakenly picked up his ex-gf. I brought her to an orgasm with my hand but I couldn't get a hard-on. Too bad he wasn't there to help me out. Went to see a shrink after that.
Experiment #3- After I came out many women volunteered to fuck me straight. I took one up on it but I couldn't get a hard on.
Experiment # 4 - Time: my late 20s, Place: NYC My sister had roomed with a stunning Brazilian model. We got drunk together and she ended up in my bed. She knew I was gay but gave it a go. It didn't work.
Since then I have had many women come on strong and question whether I might not be a bit bi. They find it hard to believe I'm completely gay. But if I can't get it up with a stunning Brazilian model what heterosexual hope is there for me? Funny thing is I have dreams all the time of being married, in a relationship and having sex with women. Don't know what that is all about.
Good luck with your experimenting. Maybe you will get a hard on. I've heard from my bi-friends that vaginal sex beats anything a male body can offer but a good blow job from a guy comes close.