Just Wondering?

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    May 19, 2011 10:25 PM GMT
    So my friend just hooked me up on a blind date! The only problem is that i think he may be too old for me? Hes 30ish and good looking with abs and devlish good looks! Should I stay away and go for my age.Or is age only a number?icon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gif
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    May 19, 2011 10:56 PM GMT
    From the way you describe him, he's probably the one who'll want to stay away from you.
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    May 20, 2011 12:55 AM GMT
    This was explained to me the other day for I've been on a few dates with a 24 year old recently.

    -A 30 year old dick and a 24 year old dick function the same physically, but the 24 year old dick says, "you look good today, another looks good tomorrow, I'll try this one out the next day, etc..." The 30 year old dick is a little more likely to stick with the same once they've found it.

    SO thoughts may be that he may try you out until you get tired of him.
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    May 21, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    deltalimen saidThis was explained to me the other day for I've been on a few dates with a 24 year old recently.

    -A 30 year old dick and a 24 year old dick function the same physically, but the 24 year old dick says, "you look good today, another looks good tomorrow, I'll try this one out the next day, etc..." The 30 year old dick is a little more likely to stick with the same once they've found it.

    SO thoughts may be that he may try you out until you get tired of him.

    Hmmm lol good point lol!
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    May 21, 2011 12:45 AM GMT
    give it a try and look into his character a bit
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    May 21, 2011 12:48 AM GMT
    Is 30ish too old?! icon_confused.gif When I was 18 I'd been with 50 year olds, if they're hot, who freakin cares about their age!!!
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    May 21, 2011 12:54 AM GMT
    It's just a date. When you're "dating" (way past the first date ask yourself this question again, mostly with the context of "do I like him, and what can we connect on?")
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    May 21, 2011 1:10 AM GMT
    Tylerbottom saidSo my friend just hooked me up on a blind date! The only problem is that i think he may be too old for me? Hes 30ish and good looking with abs and devlish good looks! Should I stay away and go for my age.Or is age only a number?icon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gif


    If you think he is too old for you - odds are he is.

    I don't mean this in a rude way but you are really young; you do not have much life experience; and as a general rule that means you are very easy to take advantage of, especially with the top/bottom power dynamic that your username sort of screams out in no uncertain terms how important it is to your identity.

    If you are feeling uncomfortable with the age difference you might want to pay some attention to WHY you are feeling uncomfortable; think about it; and think about it some more.

    I am not saying you have been set up with a serial killer rapist sex offender - but seriously. Age difference means something. What 30+ year old wants to hang out with an 18 year old? What are you really going to talk about on the date - the weather? It is probably just a hookup (hit it and quit it) situation where he is going to brag to his friends about taking advantage of a child.

    (your age divided by two) plus seven is a good rule of thumb unless there are extenuating circumstances - like you know the guys' parents; are family friends; have been going to the same dentist or something for years.

    You seem like a nice guy. Don't be naive. There are predators out there.