May 20, 2011 8:28 PM GMT
Ok, soooo I've given up on dating someone I am attracted too and decided to date someone who looks good on paper. I have been seeing him for 4 weeks now and still he isn't growing on me at all. I actually try to see him less and less as time goes on. I had dated a guy for 2 weeks prior to this that I was attracted too but he just walked away from me like they always do. We never even slept together either, and now he is dating a buff friend of mine. Big arms wins again, whats the score now, Big arms 55 Jeffrey 0. Sigh.. I see what happened there. BUT back to guy #1. I just am really pushing myself to date someone who looks good on paper. I know I can't have my cake and eat it too you know? Seriously be with someone who ur attracted too and they treat you good. PFHT yah right. lol Thats not in the cards for me. So what techniques do you guys use who are in relationships to force urself into liking someone. I am super nice to him ALL the time, and well, the sex isn't good, but hey sex goes away right? Please I need help, I don't know what to do here to like him!