Hi new here and HIV+

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    May 21, 2011 10:49 AM GMT
    Just joined this site so I'm not really sure who's comfortable chatting with an HIV+ guy, so if you are msg me. Thanks for reading this.
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    May 21, 2011 11:17 AM GMT
    just don't voice any kind of opinions or anything.........just sayin'......

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  • mynyun

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    May 21, 2011 11:21 AM GMT
    It really depends on the person. I mean as far as chatting most are up for that. But for taking it farther some are for it and some aren't.


    For example.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1477819/



    But welcome and enjoy. I enjoy chatting with anyone.
  • monet

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    May 21, 2011 12:40 PM GMT
    The only guys who won't want to chat with you are the guys who think you can catch HIV over the internet.
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    May 21, 2011 1:03 PM GMT
    Welcome! Sure you'll meet some great guys here!
  • Kage

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    May 21, 2011 1:04 PM GMT
    Welcome!
  • HndsmKansan

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    May 21, 2011 1:05 PM GMT
    Hey Shawn, we've already had some good conversation going already.. glad you're here...
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    May 21, 2011 1:12 PM GMT
    Hey guys and thank you all for the welcomes , hope you all have a great weekend =)
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    May 21, 2011 1:43 PM GMT
    Just make sure you have "Sage" and "...Muscle" approve your post first, otherwise you will get deleted.
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    May 21, 2011 1:43 PM GMT
    Hey man! Welcome! icon_biggrin.gif

    I don't think you will have many problems with that unless someone is just completely rude. Someone messaged me who has HIV and I was completely fine with that! As a matter of fact, we had a good conversation. I'm glad you joined!
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    May 21, 2011 2:32 PM GMT
    Scruffypup saidJust make sure you have "Sage" and "...Muscle" approve your post first, otherwise you will get deleted.



    loool XD

    Well, although I enjoyed calling you out on your bull, I never reported either you or rnch. Still, I noticed that your moronic, and his racist, threads both got deleted, regardless. So.... I guess you must be upset, huh...

    You mad bro?

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    May 21, 2011 2:39 PM GMT
    To the OP- Hello. Don't worry, i'm sure nobody with an IQ above single digits cares if the person they are having an online convo with has HIV.

    Have fun.
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    May 21, 2011 3:06 PM GMT
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    Scruffypup saidJust make sure you have "Sage" and "...Muscle" approve your post first, otherwise you will get deleted.



    loool XD

    Well, although I enjoyed calling you out on your bull, I never reported either you or rnch. Still, I noticed that your moronic and his racist threads both got deleted, regardless. So.... I guess you must be upset, huh...

    You mad bro?

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    There was no "bull" involved. It was a set up for the hypocrites like you, and you took the bait. You think it's wrong to prejudge people for being black but bashing someone for their age is okay. You're like one of those fundamental Christians who pick the verses of the Bible that condone the things they hate, and conveniently ignore the ones that don't fit their agenda. And posting a gif of two bitchy women only tells me you think of yourself and other gay men as females. Stereotype much?
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    May 21, 2011 3:11 PM GMT
    lastmystic saidJust joined this site so I'm not really sure who's comfortable chatting with an HIV+ guy, so if you are msg me. Thanks for reading this.



    The truth is yes.....some guys will reject you because of your HIV status, just like we all get rejected for various reasons. But some will not care. It's a mixed bag and there's no way of knowing who's going to care and who's not. But don't automatically assume that it's because of your status when you get rejected. Gay men can be very picky and fickle (myself included), so you never know what's going to push their buttons. But in general, I don't think you will have a problem here.
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    May 21, 2011 3:31 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said

    There was no "bull" involved. It was a set up for the hypocrites like you, and you took the bait. You think it's wrong to prejudge people for being black but bashing someone for their age is okay. You're like one of those fundamental Christians who pick the verses of the Bible that condone the things they hate, and conveniently ignore the ones that don't fit their agenda. And posting a gif of two bitchy women only tells me you think of yourself and other gay men as females. Stereotype much?


    I may be many things, but a hypocrite is not one of them.

    The bull was that your anology was stupid and failed dismally, and somewhat offensive that you would equate the two together.

    My little jab at your age and mental state was just that, ironic, considering the thread subject.Google irony. Boo hoo =]

    I sometimes use GIF's to highlight the tone of my post. It really doesn't matter if the subject in the pic is a man/woman/animal/inanimate object/cartoon/wording etc, as long as it conveys the emotion/tone/expression I want to convey. I don't just use pics that show macho men in order to reinforce the belief in myself that I project that image. I'm a bit more secure in myself than that ;]
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    May 21, 2011 3:34 PM GMT
    turbobilly saidjust don't voice any kind of opinions or anything.........just sayin'......

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    See?

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    May 21, 2011 3:38 PM GMT
    Ummm.......I didn't see the need to spell out the irony in my post as it was quite obvious to anyone with a brain, not to mention I put in bold print to be sure and read the other thread before getting worked up. Funny, everyone got it but you. (until the hypocrites had it deleted of course.)
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    May 21, 2011 3:49 PM GMT
    I recognised the supposed joke that you aimed for. I simply posted a reply that, imo, it failed, as race and age are not analogous. If you used something that was analogous to age, perhaps health or weight for example, it might have worked as ironic satire of the 'old people in clubs' thread.

    Furthermore, your thread was in bad taste. Somebody else even told you ''too soon'', but I don't think you got what that meant. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Anyway, this convo is derailing the thread. PM me if you still don't get what I have expressed, as opposed to calling me out on a thread I wasn't even participating in. Grazie.
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    May 21, 2011 4:03 PM GMT
    What a classy way to take over a thread about someone joining Real Jock into a petty squabble ...
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    May 21, 2011 8:17 PM GMT
    Did you really have unprotected sex? Who would do that? IT'S BEYOND ME!?!?!?! I'll never understand it... Even when I see porn unprotected it makes me feel sick. That's your fucking life you're dealing with! But anyways... How are you?
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    May 21, 2011 9:45 PM GMT
    Hi. I am new here too icon_smile.gif
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    May 21, 2011 9:58 PM GMT
    Welcome! Hope our collective messiness doesn't turn you off. Kidding....Or AM I? icon_cool.gif
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    May 21, 2011 10:16 PM GMT
    Welcome! Glad you're here!

    Kristoff saidDid you really have unprotected sex? Who would do that? IT'S BEYOND ME!?!?!?! I'll never understand it... Even when I see porn unprotected it makes me feel sick. That's your fucking life you're dealing with! But anyways... How are you?


    Dude, perhaps tone down the judgment bit. Folks get HIV in all kinds of circumstances - I have one friend who was infected in the early '80s the first time he ever had sex. Condoms break. There is no risk-free sex.

    So chill.

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    May 21, 2011 10:33 PM GMT
    There are at least 1603 HIV+ and at most 84159 HIV- people on this site.

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    May 21, 2011 11:46 PM GMT
    Have fun with Realjock! Lots of cool guys! and its really just cool to chat with alot of them... ! Welcome!