Dating a prostitute, and find out your coworker is one of his clients.

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    May 21, 2011 2:37 PM GMT
    Hypothetical question, because weird shit goes through my head sometimes. icon_lol.gif

    So...if you started dating a male prostitute and found out one of your coworkers (one who's assumed straight at work) is one of his regular clients, what would you do?

    PS. This thread is NOT about whether or not you'd date a male prostitute. I don't give a fuck about people's opinion on that subject. Let's just pretend that everyone here is open-minded and non-judgmental about other people's career choices.
  • slimnmuscly

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    May 21, 2011 2:42 PM GMT
    I'd keep the information about my coworker to myself, and I'd stop dating the sex worker because he's obviously too ethically challenged to keep his clients' confidence.
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    May 21, 2011 2:43 PM GMT
    slimnmuscly saidI'd keep the information about my coworker to myself, and I'd stop dating the sex worker because he's obviously too ethically challenged to keep his clients' confidence.
    Oops, forgot one important bit of info: You found out after taking him to a company party, and your coworker pulled you to the side and confided his secret with you.
  • kew1

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    May 21, 2011 2:49 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    slimnmuscly saidI'd keep the information about my coworker to myself, and I'd stop dating the sex worker because he's obviously too ethically challenged to keep his clients' confidence.
    Oops, forgot one important bit of info: You found out after taking him to a company party, and your coworker pulled you to the side and confided his secret with you.


    Feel smug, your co-worker is paying for some of your dates.
  • GQjock

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    May 21, 2011 2:49 PM GMT
    LOL ... sounds like one of those stories you hear with .... So I have this Friend.....

    But if you're dating a male prostitute you gotta be able to think he's gonna have some "clients" that you're gonna know
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    May 21, 2011 2:51 PM GMT
    GQjock saidLOL ... sounds like one of those stories you hear with .... So I have this Friend.....

    But if you're dating a male prostitute you gotta be able to think he's gonna have some "clients" that you're gonna know
    Shhh....that's how I wanted it to sound. icon_lol.gif
    Actually I was eating breakfast and the thought popped in my head.
    I was like "ya know, around here, I wouldn't be surprised if that happens someday."
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    May 21, 2011 2:51 PM GMT
    kew1 saidFeel smug, your co-worker is paying for some of your dates.
    Win! Borat.gif
  • slimnmuscly

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    May 21, 2011 2:53 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    slimnmuscly saidI'd keep the information about my coworker to myself, and I'd stop dating the sex worker because he's obviously too ethically challenged to keep his clients' confidence.
    Oops, forgot one important bit of info: You found out after taking him to a company party, and your coworker pulled you to the side and confided his secret with you.


    Then I'd keep my coworker's secret. What's the dilemma here?
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    May 21, 2011 2:55 PM GMT
    slimnmuscly said
    paulflexes said
    slimnmuscly saidI'd keep the information about my coworker to myself, and I'd stop dating the sex worker because he's obviously too ethically challenged to keep his clients' confidence.
    Oops, forgot one important bit of info: You found out after taking him to a company party, and your coworker pulled you to the side and confided his secret with you.


    Then I'd keep my coworker's secret. What's the dilemma here?
    No dilemma. It's not even a serious question.
    It would great for a parody skit, though. icon_biggrin.gif
  • rnch

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    May 21, 2011 2:57 PM GMT
    MYOB.

    safe sex always.
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    May 21, 2011 3:17 PM GMT
    I'd ask my BF to not work with him again, and not to knowingly work with people that I know on a personal level and have a relationship with (platonic/working etc). Not because I felt I had a right to determine his practice, but out of respect for me and my relationships with others.

    It crosses boundaries. Never a good idea. Private and work life for an escort should not mix imo, disaster waiting to happen, especially if the escort has a BF whose private/work life should not directly interwine with the BF's sex-work. Boundaries exist in that industry because they are tried and tested to work for the better.

    I would clear the air with the coworker so that it would not be any more awkward and uncomfortable at my workplace than it had to be.