The elusive 4th date....

  • Celticmusl

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    May 21, 2011 5:32 PM GMT
    When was the last time you've actually been able to have a 4th date with a guy?
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    May 21, 2011 5:38 PM GMT
    For me the toughies were always the 2nd or 3rd. If I got that far, the 4th was a given.
  • Celticmusl

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    May 21, 2011 5:40 PM GMT
    Art_Deco saidFor me the toughies were always the 2nd or 3rd. If I got that far, the 4th was a given.



    So the third would be the hump? Usually the second or third is about the time they flake out and cancel a few minutes before the date.
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    May 21, 2011 5:58 PM GMT
    Celticmusl said
    Art_Deco saidFor me the toughies were always the 2nd or 3rd. If I got that far, the 4th was a given.

    So the third would be the hump? Usually the second or third is about the time they flake out and cancel a few minutes before the date.

    Yes, third was the hump for me. I can't recall any totally canceling last minute, but just ignoring calls, not calling back like he promised, not answering e-mails. The "cold shoulder" treatment. But if I got past the third date, I could usually count on dating him for a while.