Clubbing with your mom? :D

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    May 22, 2011 3:53 AM GMT
    I came out about 2 years ago to my parents, i was one of the lucky ones whos parents embraced me even more instead of rejecting me for who i am.

    Well about 3 months ago, i started to go clubbing more often and just enjoying dancing, at one point in those 3 months, my mom asked me if she could go with me, i didnt even think twice and said yes of course icon_smile.gif.

    Soo we went, she was shocked at somethings she saw, but she is a very open minded woman, after a bit, she got comfortable and just danced.. i realized that at one point a lot of guys would start talking to her, instead of going straight for me lol, i found it comical, and cute all in one.

    Every Saturday now, we go clubbing together, straight or gay clubs, shes amazing! a lot of dudes ask me if its embarrassing going out with her, but no, not at all, if anything im proud shes goes out with me and supports me. icon_smile.gif

    Any guys out there take their mom out clubbing or to gay clubsicon_biggrin.gif?
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    May 22, 2011 4:01 AM GMT
    Ah yes I heard of this approach taking something cute like a puppy/dog/cute old mother with you wherever you go and the guys go gaga over them and you. icon_razz.gif

    Nah sucks to say my mom hates gay people hence why I'm not out out.
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    May 22, 2011 4:04 AM GMT
    Haha that's pretty funny. icon_razz.gif

    I wouldn't take my mom clubbing... she's just not the clubbing type. Then again neither am I, so.
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    May 22, 2011 4:07 AM GMT
    Not only I'd go with ma mom, I'd also go with my grandma. It's fun. Grandma kicks arse!
  • Spiritreaver

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    May 22, 2011 7:31 AM GMT
    That's pretty cool. I went to a club a couple of weeks ago, Groovys, I dunno if you've ever been there. It's 70s and 80s themed and I thought about what it would be like if my mom was there with me. She loves disco and we bot love MJ and I'd love to dance with her.

    But then I dunno if she'd be comfortable, or if I'd be comfortable with her being there, lol. Maybe I'll give it a shot.
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    May 22, 2011 7:35 AM GMT
    I'm jelly... I wish my mom or dad could go clubbing but they fucking hate me.

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    but lucky you! It must be fun icon_razz.gif Enjoy every moment with her everytime you go out.
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    May 22, 2011 7:41 AM GMT
    Love the post mate! Too cute. Though I think I would take my Grandma. She is pretty groovy.

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    xx
  • alphatop

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    May 22, 2011 7:41 AM GMT
    I went with my dad to a gay club once....And after dancing the night away, he said:" I've never seen so much muscles at one place. I notice that one guy was giving you an eye. Why didn't you go for it? You are a moron. If I were you, I'd fuck as much as possible."
    Needless to say, I was in icon_eek.gif
  • Aus92

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    May 22, 2011 7:42 AM GMT
    I wish I had a choice haha my mothers got a heap of young friends from work and they all love going out clubbing together so I just go somewhere with all my friends and sometimes we just end up meeting up lol
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    May 22, 2011 7:46 AM GMT
    AntoNomad saidI went with my dad to a gay club once....And after dancing the night away, he said:" I've never seen so much muscles at one place. I notice that one guy was giving you an eye. Why didn't you go for it? You are a moron. If I were you, I'd fuck as much as possible."
    Needless to say, I was in icon_eek.gif


    Wow. Jealous!
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    May 22, 2011 7:48 AM GMT
    Nah, I wouldn't take her clubbing but we do go to bar/theatre together even if there's a gay element to it or a gay play. Love taking her out to places, she's a hoot! She's still coming to terms with me being gay so we're not at that level of comfort just yet, ie: oggling half naked guys or doin' the grind icon_biggrin.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    May 22, 2011 7:54 AM GMT
    That's awesome that you can do that. While I lost my mother when I was 24, I doubt if she would go clubbing. Kind of funny to consider it.
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    May 22, 2011 8:08 AM GMT
    The bartenders even know her by name, i keep telling her im so proud that she goes with me, and her response is "whatever, youre totally embarrased" lol.

    tonight was definitely fun. icon_smile.gif
    i laughed my ass of when she finally started to notice guys were passing messages to me through her.
    "Billy, i would love to let you know that the guy over there, yeah the guy hes dancing with, thats his best friend, theyre not together, guess im your secretary now." hahaha.
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    May 22, 2011 8:14 AM GMT
    Its really nice to see that your mum enjoys herself.

    I wish I could say the same. My mum would probably just flat line :S
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    May 22, 2011 8:43 AM GMT
    I've been a few times when I was a teenager on vacation with my parents. I went to nightclubs in Paris and Florence, as well as discos in various resorts.
    I probably would have been embarrassed, being a teenager and all, but most people see my parents on the dance floor and say, "Awww." It's obvious that they're still in love with each other.
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    May 22, 2011 10:44 AM GMT
    Yeah, I took my mum to the hottest gay club around here once and she loooved it, so now she wants to come with me all the time. It's ok with me, my friends distract her while I play in the dark room, so all is good :-)
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    May 22, 2011 11:53 AM GMT
    I tried to talk my mom into going clubbing with me, but she's afraid she'd go to hell if she did that. icon_lol.gif
  • GQjock

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    May 22, 2011 12:06 PM GMT
    The clubbing with your mom isn't the problem
    It's that it's every Saturday night

    That's the problem
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    May 22, 2011 12:12 PM GMT
    Sublstyley saidThe bartenders even know her by name, i keep telling her im so proud that she goes with me, and her response is "whatever, youre totally embarrased" lol.

    tonight was definitely fun. icon_smile.gif
    i laughed my ass of when she finally started to notice guys were passing messages to me through her.
    "Billy, i would love to let you know that the guy over there, yeah the guy hes dancing with, thats his best friend, theyre not together, guess im your secretary now." hahaha.



    you have the COOLEST MOM EVAR!

    if only all our kin were this supportive, there would be a great deal less need for therapy, antidepressants, and happy hour...



    ..well, maybe there'd still be a need for happy hour.
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    May 22, 2011 2:48 PM GMT
    If I was the clubbing type, my mom would ask to tag along. My mom is an outgoing person and she likes to talk to people. I told her I am going to Pride this year and she asked me if she could tag along. I said yes. I think it's great that she has such an open mind and that she embraces who I am as a person.

    P.S. Your mom sounds like such a sweetheart! icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 22, 2011 2:52 PM GMT
    GQjock saidThe clubbing with your mom isn't the problem
    It's that it's every Saturday night

    That's the problem



    I agree. I think it was cute you took her once...twice maybe....but every Saturday night? Do you really want to be known as "that guy that always goes clubbing with his Mommy?".
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    May 22, 2011 2:58 PM GMT
    Sublstyley saidAny guys out there take their mom out clubbing or to gay clubsicon_biggrin.gif?

    Not me, for one thing my mother being dead by the time I came out. But I've known a few guys who have, and I met their moms, all nice ladies. But none do it on a regular basis.

    But when you say clubbing, you don't mean a place like the Habana Inn in OKC, do you? Or that string of gay places nearby?
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    May 22, 2011 3:01 PM GMT
    lucky bastard icon_biggrin.gif
  • brendanmuscle...

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    May 22, 2011 5:59 PM GMT
    Wow, you're a very brave soul, my parents know i am gay and are very cool with it and support it but i would neeeeever want my mom to come to a gay club with me! It would definitely quickly become one of the most embarassing, and awkward moments of my life! lol
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    May 22, 2011 6:07 PM GMT
    i'd feel really awkward if my mom came with me.

    Definitely because I'm a flirt and I think she would cramp my style lol