Question About Working at A Gay Bar

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    May 22, 2011 4:51 AM GMT
    Alright guys, here's my deal



    I'm a pretty good looking guy (I don't really care but everybody always tells me I'm very cute and what not). I'm also a big time bodybuilding enthusiast (5'10 about 190 ish)



    I want to work at a gay bar as a bartender...but I'm straight. Would it difficult to get hired?? and could I make great money working there 2-3 times a week??



    on a scale of 1-10, I would honestly rate myself a 9/10. I don't want to post any pictures of myself though to retain my anynomous status but I look kinda like this



    Sagi-Kalev-hunks-114105_400_600.jpg



    thank you for any help. I didn't know where else to ask this question cause I have no gay friends
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    May 22, 2011 5:03 AM GMT
    bump


    I apologize if my first post came off as arrogant



    I am just very curious because I need some money (part time college student) and have nowhere else to ask this question
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    May 22, 2011 5:08 AM GMT
    At least my avatar is honest.
    Yours sucks baws.
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    May 22, 2011 5:11 AM GMT
    I guess that would all depend on the gay bar you want to work at... It can't hurt to apply, can it? I don't know if anyone would reject someone who looks like Sagi Kalev. ;)

    Although I'm interested in why a straight guy wants to work in a gay bar. icon_smile.gif
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    May 22, 2011 5:14 AM GMT
    1)One fish, I want to work there cause I know I can make like three times more doing that than working at a straight bar (probably much easier to get hired as well)


    2) I look very close to that in the face. In the body, I'm good size but I'm alot smaller (no roid muscles like that, I'm all natural)



    3)What sort of money am I looking at??
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    May 22, 2011 5:17 AM GMT
    Just so I understand...

    You're straight, but you're on a gay site...

    You're straight, but you want to work in a gay bar....

    You're straight but you look suspiciously like, well, a gay guy.

    What was the question again????? icon_eek.gif
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    May 22, 2011 5:19 AM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ saidWhat was the question again????? icon_eek.gif
    He's asking how much money he could make by staying in the closet and pretending to be straight while working at a gay bar because he thinks he's too hot for the clientele, so instead he'll just take their money and run.
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    May 22, 2011 5:21 AM GMT
    curious jocks


    1)I'm on a gay site cause I have no gay friends to ask them this question. I didn't know where else to turn to


    2)I want to work at a gay bar cause I have heard it's easy to get hired and I can make good money (I don't want to work retail somewhere making little money)


    I don't care about gay guys making out or hitting on me, I'm very secure in my sexuality


    3)that guy is straight (he's got a wife) and I look more masculine than he does. He wears makeup and stuff on his face... my face is naturally pretty but I look more masculine cause I am not metrosexual at all (hell, it takes me 10 minutes to get ready)
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    May 22, 2011 5:21 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    CuriousJockAZ saidWhat was the question again????? icon_eek.gif
    He's asking how much money he could make by staying in the closet and pretending to be straight while working at a gay bar because he thinks he's too hot for the clientele, so instead he'll just take their money and run.




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    I'm not gay at all bro. I just want to make that money



    I have banged about as many girls as most of you guys have banged well...guys
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    May 22, 2011 5:23 AM GMT
    bigdave177 said
    paulflexes said
    CuriousJockAZ saidWhat was the question again????? icon_eek.gif
    He's asking how much money he could make by staying in the closet and pretending to be straight while working at a gay bar because he thinks he's too hot for the clientele, so instead he'll just take their money and run.




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    I'm not gay at all bro. I just want to make that money



    I have banged about as many girls as most of you guys have banged well...guys
    Banging girls doesn't make you straight. It just makes you too much of a pussy to admit you're gay.

    And yeah, don't work in a fucking gay bar. Whenever a bartender tells me he's straight, I go to the next bar. The last thing we need is pseudo-straight guys trying to rip us off by overcharging for the drinks and pocketing the money (which is what 100% of 'straight' bartenders do at gay bars).
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    May 22, 2011 5:27 AM GMT
    [quote]make you straight. It just makes you too much of a pussy to admit you're gay.

    And yeah, don't work in a fucking gay bar. Whenever a bartender tells me he's straight, I go to the next bar. The last thing we need is pseudo-straight guys trying to rip us off by overcharging for the drinks and pocketing the money (which is what 100% of 'straight' bartenders do at gay bars).[/quote]



    but we all win man icon_razz.gif



    1)I win cause I'm making bank



    2)the bar wins cause you're coming in



    3)the people coming in win because they have a pretty face and big arms to look at while they sip drinks




    I'm kidding, but I would really appreciate any further help though. How easy would it be to get hired? and how much money can I make?? thanks to all of you guys

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    May 22, 2011 5:29 AM GMT
    Friendsrbetter said
    This kinda pisses me off...
    You say your straight, but you already know that you can make more money working in a gay bar...or so you say.
    What irritates me is that you are basically hustling gays just for their money.
    You obviously would have no intention of meeting up with one of your big tippers after the bar closes...or would you? I mean, if the price was right.
    I seriously doubt that you would make an hourly wage any higher than you would get working in a straight bar... so, it seems that the whole idea is to
    make MORE money from gay men by "playing" them.



    bro you're kidding right with this "you make the same amount of money bartending at a straight bar" nonsense??


    you might as well say that you can make the same amount of money in straight porn as in gay porn...absolutely ridiculous



    at a straight bar, nobody gives a sh!t about the guy bartenders (even if they're good looking). At a gay bar, the good looking guys are like the superstars and everybody wants to get drinks from them



    and yes I'm playing these men, but hell women have been doing that for thousands of years. I'm just using what god give me?
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    May 22, 2011 5:35 AM GMT
    bigdave177 said
    at a straight bar, nobody gives a sh!t about the guy bartenders (even if they're good looking). At a gay bar, the good looking guys are like the superstars and everybody wants to get drinks from them


    That will last about 5 minutes until word gets out that you're a full-of-himself straight guy and they move on to the more humble gay guy who is also a better bartender.
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    May 22, 2011 5:38 AM GMT
    bigdave177 saidand yes I'm playing these men, but hell women have been doing that for thousands of years. I'm just using what god give me?
    Don't give that fucking bullshit about god. You don't believe in that shit anyway.
    I also don't believe you're straight. I think you're a fucking faggot who'd rather rip off guys than fuck them.
    That's why I walk out of gay bars when they have "straight" (aka: closeted cowards) bartenders...and I'm not the only guy who does that. You're gonna have a hard time getting hired until you're out of the closet, "bro."
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    May 22, 2011 5:41 AM GMT
    Oh and one more thing: It's not uncommon for "straight" bartenders to get shot in the alleyway behind the bar after it closes.
    ...especially around here. These guys ain't "queens." icon_wink.gif
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    May 22, 2011 5:41 AM GMT
    Friendsrbetter saidYou can rationalize it all you want....just don't expect any advice from us.
    You say you have NO gay friends to ask.... so, what makes you think you would even be able to handle gay guys making passes at you??
    YOU SAID:
    "and yes I'm playing these men, but hell women have been doing that for thousands of years. I'm just using what god give me?"

    Sounds like a whore to me, which is basically what I think you would be IF you ever got a job working in a gay bar. I sure hope any gay bar in YOUR area thinks twice about hiring you!!!



    yea I'm basically whoring myself out and playing these gay men for the tips.



    as terrible as it sounds, I would much rather do this than have some sh!tty retail job making a fraction of the money


    and handling gay men taking a pass at me?? what are they really gonna do? they will give me compliments, I'll tell them thank you. If they ask me out, I'm gonna tell them i'm straight. What's the problem?

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    bigdave177 said
    at a straight bar, nobody gives a sh!t about the guy bartenders (even if they're good looking). At a gay bar, the good looking guys are like the superstars and everybody wants to get drinks from them


    That will last about 5 minutes until word gets out that you're a full-of-himself straight guy and they move on to the more humble gay guy who is also a better bartender.



    I'm just kidding around man. It's the internet, don't take it too seriously


    in real life, I'm not arrogant at all, In fact I love talking to people and making them feel good about themselves and life in general



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    May 22, 2011 5:44 AM GMT
    word of advice, gay guys are like woman, they want something or someone they know they can f**k or be f**ked by and not a straight guy whose unattainable plain and simple LOL

    nah whatever you do is your business, be honest and upfront is the least you can do and some of the dumb guys will probably think you're lying and well give u a slightly bigger tip. or if they're really dumb worse thing that can happen is you wake up in an apartment, your ass hurts, and well find out you can't move cause you're in the center of a pile of guys icon_razz.gif
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    May 22, 2011 5:46 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    bigdave177 saidand yes I'm playing these men, but hell women have been doing that for thousands of years. I'm just using what god give me?
    Don't give that fucking bullshit about god. You don't believe in that shit anyway.
    I also don't believe you're straight. I think you're a fucking faggot who'd rather rip off guys than fuck them.
    That's why I walk out of gay bars when they have "straight" (aka: closeted cowards) bartenders...and I'm not the only guy who does that. You're gonna have a hard time getting hired until you're out of the closet, "bro."





    why do you think I'm gay man??


    I'm looking at the prospect of making 10 bucks an hour at a retail job I hate versus making what?? 25 bucks an hour working as a bartender at a gay bar?? It's a pretty easy choice



    I have never been interested at all in men. I have friends who are unbelievably good looking, big muscular, etc... and I have never been even remotely aroused by any of them (hell that thought sounds ridiculous to me)



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    May 22, 2011 5:47 AM GMT
    I dunno... I've never really gave a shit what the bartender looks like. I've always been more into the DJ. icon_wink.gif
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    May 22, 2011 5:48 AM GMT
    bigdave177 said
    I'm just kidding around man. It's the internet, don't take it too seriously



    Oh, trust me, I don't think anyone here is taking you seriously. After all, this IS the internet. Now, if you were a 10 -- maybe -- but you being only a 9/10, well, they're a dime-a-dozen around here icon_lol.gif
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    May 22, 2011 5:49 AM GMT
    vain_nayias saidword of advice, gay guys are like woman, they want something or someone they know they can f**k or be f**ked by and not a straight guy whose unattainable plain and simple LOL

    nah whatever you do is your business, be honest and upfront is the least you can do and some of the dumb guys will probably think you're lying and well give u a slightly bigger tip. or if they're really dumb worse thing that can happen is you wake up in an apartment, your ass hurts, and well find out you can't move cause you're in the center of a pile of guys icon_razz.gif



    I'm sure you know what you're talking about, but would gay guys really be turned off like that just cause I'm straight??


    you guys seem to lust after straight men all the time
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    May 22, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    bigdave177 said
    I'm sure you know what you're talking about, but would gay guys really be turned off like that just cause I'm straight??

    you guys seem to lust after straight men all the time


    I would say that isn't true, but it is half true in my case other guys are completely turned off by it and others think well that you're "straight" like paulflexes
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    May 22, 2011 5:54 AM GMT
    Friendsrbetter said
    "in real life, I'm not arrogant at all, In fact I love talking to people and making them feel good about themselves and life in general"

    How many gay guys do you know? Oh, yeah...you started this thread by saying this:
    "I didn't know where else to ask this question cause I have no gay friends

    IF you are that hot (which I seriously doubt) you should stand on the street corner and show your "wares" to the guys driving expensive cars... IF you are successful....you could make at least $500 a night.
    Seriously, face it...you're a whore whether you work INSIDE the bar or just
    stand in front of it.... icon_rolleyes.gif




    1)Me not having gay friends is by coincedence, not intent


    I just never met any nice people who happened to be gay. In real life, I'm one of the least judgemental and most laid back guys you will find. Again, I don't want to brag but I take great pride in being nice to everybody I talk to



    2)that sounds like a horrible job LOL


    I just want to serve drinks and make everybody have a great time (and get paid big time in return). Why is that so bad??


    just cause I'm a bartender there, I have to agree to having sex with the men in the bar afterwards??


    I'm not doing anything different than what straight women do in straight bars all the time
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    May 22, 2011 5:56 AM GMT
    Friendsrbetter saidbigdave177 said:

    "I'm sure you know what you're talking about, but would gay guys really be turned off like that just cause I'm straight??
    you guys seem to lust after straight men all the time"


    And you learned this WHERE????? icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif

    And yes... gay guys WOULD be turned off because you're straight. Why would ANY gay guy waste time AND money on a guy who ain't gonna put out?



    why do straight men waste time and money on married women at a bar who is never gonna sleep with them??



    cause attraction is attraction right??
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    May 22, 2011 5:59 AM GMT
    Friendsrbetter said
    Your continued reference between a gay man and a woman is TOTALLY out of whack....
    So, this is what you think of gay men???
    GFY, dude.... go play with your straight friends.
    You are NOT going to get one single positive response this your stupid idea
    of working in a gay bar...in other words... GET LOST! We don't like you?

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    had to post this lol