Stupid ex...somehow makes me feel better about myself

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    May 22, 2011 5:04 AM GMT
    So about a year ago I dated this guy at my school and we broke up...kind of nastily. Long story short he cheated, I forgave him, he said he had some issues he had to work through...implied I caused them, I became somewhat needy, we got sick of each other and had a falling out, and we haven't talked in a year. Blah blah.

    Anyhoo, just out of the blue recently he texted me asking if I was seeing anyone...I debated whether or not to respond. Eventually I did and he asked if I wanted to hookup. So I texted back pretty much being like wow are you for real and he responded "lol or not." That was it.

    After we broke up I wondered a bit if he really was a bad guy, did I just push him too hard, etc. And this recent event just confirmed in my mind that he really is just a douche. Don't get me wrong, it's been a while since I've moved on from it but it's nice to see retroactively that it wasn't me. Like for real, how much sketchier can you get than that?

    So yeah, that's my story and I just feel strangely happy icon_razz.gif
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    May 22, 2011 1:53 PM GMT
    Some people change over time or you see them in a different light and some guys are good but do 'douchey' things lol.

    I did see an exboyfriend post on his facebook something about him thinking a guy was the one but the guy didn't think he was and I thought to myself , 'know you now how it feels' and felt a little vindicated but then I realised I probably have some issue when I'm waiting for something like that to happen.

    He seems a bit immature dude so you definitely got the long straw in the break up.