Edward011 saidI will never understand why people want to be messy and ruin another person life, take what is theirs, come into their life first as a friend and double cross you just to get close to someone you were dating. Can anyone give me some advice on what to do to get over this situation because my then boyfriend was stolen from me not to long ago due to messy hoes on this site.
i'll take this at face value.
if he was "stolen" he could be returned. property is "stolen". people with free will go where they want. they honor their contracts or they do not. if they do not, you don't want them around anyway.
as for your question. how to get over it? keep yourself busy. OWN the portion of this that is YOUR fault. in other words, either you were making assumptions about your level of seriousness and overly investing in the idea of you as a couple AND/or you were naive about the intentions of someone near you (there's an expression, keep your friends close, your enemies closer (less distance to stab them))..... the pieces of this that you own are the ONLY things you can control. the rest of it is beyond your control and will only cause you needless suffering to ponder.