Break then make up -break up then make up !!??

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    May 23, 2011 11:24 AM GMT
    At the moment this is what's happening between me and my boyfriend ! I think its happened like 3 times in less than 2 months what's going on ! Its officially off ! But I know in three days time we will be back together ! I hope ! Am hoping ! What's going on ! I am so confused ! We fight so much but it seems like we need each other more than anything ! Advice please guys ! Or has this been. The case for any of your relationships ??
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    May 23, 2011 2:43 PM GMT
    I don't think it's healthy to break up and get back together several times at the rate you describe. After 1 time, I'd say it's probably OK.

    You may think you need each other, but your emotions may not make you think properly. No one needs another person which they always have a fight with.
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    May 23, 2011 7:55 PM GMT
    "and this too shall come to pass" eventually you will get sick of this yoyo effect. Its emotionally tiring & draining.
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    May 23, 2011 8:14 PM GMT
    redbull said"and this too shall come to pass" eventually you will get sick of this yoyo effect. Its emotionally tiring & draining.
    yeah I guess u r totally right we are already back together !!

    It is tiring but I jsut pray and hope tht this is the last time !! Because it is draining ! Thanx a lot peeps ;)
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    May 23, 2011 8:26 PM GMT
    maybe you are expecting too much of the relationship...so you binge and purge on it....maybe you could both step back and be more objective about how it fits into your larger lives
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    May 23, 2011 8:30 PM GMT
    BambinoRex saidmaybe you are expecting too much of the relationship...so you binge and purge on it....maybe you could both step back and be more objective about how it fits into your larger lives


    U r amazing you have really hit the situation right on spot man! That is exactly what the situation has become ! That's amazing wow ! I'm lost for words dude ! But its exactly what's going on right now in our relationship ! But now its trying to 'not' expct tht much
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    May 24, 2011 12:40 PM GMT
    That and not let very little thing bother you. Sometimes you just have to let it slide y'know.
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    May 24, 2011 1:09 PM GMT
    Tell him next time you break up with him it will be permanent, and stick with it.
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    May 24, 2011 1:13 PM GMT
    I went through this many years ago and after a couple of years of enormous emotional turmoil decided it was sick and unhealthy and could not be fixed and broke it off. Best of luck. It could be difficult for you to do this I know, but some relationships are just not meant to be and you will recover from it.