shortguybeau saidI read posts like these from time to time and wonder why people don't just own up to digging for dirt. That's what you were doing. You don't try to do something fairly innocent like "turning on wifi" and then stumble upon photos. You find them when you dig and you were digging.
At least own up to that much. All the immature jealousy in relationships rarely comes from one side, even if it's warranted.
Why is it that when someone discovers a partner cheating there is always a person who comes on berating the cheated person about how they found out.
Who cares HOW he found out, trust is earned, he obviously didn't trust his partner and he was right.
to the OP, don't feel a shred of guilt, if the guy had ANY morals he wouldn't have cheated let alone photographed it.
Dump his pathetic ass and find a real man.
This person who is wrong in these situations is the cheater, not the person who found out... whenever someone says "you shouldn't have betrayed his trust, you have no right digging in his things, you are the problem with the relationship" my head explodes from trying to process such illogical reasoning, just like when I try to argue with a girl. However, the fact that you are looking for evidence doesn't bode well to the integrity of the relationship.
Normally giving someone their privacy is respectful, BUT when your in a "monogamous" relationship & you feel like the trust has been broken then I say by all means do what you have to do to protect yourself!
If someone is cheating on you what makes you think they are going to admit it when & if you confront them? Men who cheat....lie. you have to catch them red handed.
I suspected my ex was cheating. I went on a4a & sure enough found his profile, logged into his acct because he used "our" password for our computer for it. Had him giving out his name & # to guys for hookups, some were hiv + & he told them he didnt care.
This is what made me go get tested & sure enough he had given me hiv. I was in bad shape. My dr said I shouldnt have even been able to walk around my #s were so bad. Its because I took good care of myself she said.
If I wouldnt have done this I wouldve never been tested & ended up in the hospital for sure. I think when in a relationship there should be nothing to hide. You should be open & honest with sites & passwords. If you have nothing to hide then whats the problem?
Men who cheat will lie to your face. After catching my ex in all of this he still swears it wasnt him, lmao.