musclefetish1 saidThere are many times that I view this site from my cell.
funny, when i saw this i thought you were saying that you were in prison. it's still early for me... (think i'll hotlist you now ;)
anyway, if i hotlist someone, it not necessarily because i want to chat or hook up with them. it's almost like i'm voting, syaing 'yeah, he's hotter than most here.' and hotlisting is a way, as someone else said, to just keep a list of all the guys here you think are hot. doesn't mean you want to do anything with that, or them. sometimes i hotlist guys because the physical transformations they've made are inspirational to me and when i get into a rut or fall off the wagon as far as working out and eating right, i'll flip thru the hotlist and remember why i workout and that...if someone has done something really exceptional, as well, or has something in common with me, roots for the same teams, etc., i'll drop him a note.
when i get hotlisted i appreciate it and usually, if i remember, send a quick 'thanks.' the thing that does creep me out though, is if i get hotlisted and the other guy only says 'woof,' or 'grrrr' or some other one syllable animal-like grunt. weird.
and i'd never buddylist anyone whom i hadn't already chatted with - that's kind of odd, i think. i do wish, however, that there was something besides clicking hot, that doesn't involve having to type out a long message, to let guys know that you think they seem cool and that ... that being said, if anyone wants to exchange messages with me, i'd love to actually chat with more guys here.