Is there one guy from your past you think about from time to time?

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    May 27, 2011 4:07 AM GMT
    A guy you were with, loved, anything...and you find that he crosses your mind every once in a while? Like, everything was perfect, or not, but even still...it was with him...
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    May 27, 2011 6:50 AM GMT
    I have been in love only once. I mean the shaking to the core, changing your world kind of love. And I will probably never stop thinking about him from time to time... :-)
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    May 27, 2011 6:52 AM GMT
    yeah, highschool crush. still unsure if he's gay or straight or bi, he's had a couple girlfriends though. makes me moody and shit :/
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    May 27, 2011 6:54 AM GMT
    Many guys LOL oh memories icon_smile.gif
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    May 27, 2011 7:30 AM GMT
    yuuuuup.

    this one gorgeous bastard will always have a place in my heart icon_neutral.gif

  • helios01

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    May 27, 2011 7:38 AM GMT
    My first love

    J A L

    I will always have his initials in my heart... lol

    He was the Chess team captain when i was in high school
  • Jwusn

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    May 27, 2011 1:14 PM GMT
    haha yes always wondered what happened to him and miss him i think about him a lot we called him Zak but his real name was lloyd haha
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    May 27, 2011 1:16 PM GMT
    Yes, this happens most often when I am going to sleep or when I wake up. Then I wish I could have him by my side. Then I realize he probably doesn't think about me as often as I do of him. That usually snaps me back to reality.
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    May 27, 2011 1:18 PM GMT
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    May 27, 2011 1:25 PM GMT
    Sort of, though time and distance dulls embers those flames which once burned brightly.

    There are a few whose names and faces I remember well.
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    May 27, 2011 1:28 PM GMT
    I believe it's human nature...but an occasional passing thought is more my thing. I can't claim to ever wonder "what if."
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    May 27, 2011 2:00 PM GMT
    About five guys cross my mind from time to time. They're all different from each other but each were the kind of person that I want to be with for the rest of my life unfortunately none of the relationships came to be long term. But I feel a little guilty to have the 'luck' to meet so many guys in my lifetime that I feel that way about.
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    May 27, 2011 2:04 PM GMT
    Oh yeah....this weekend is a big reminder of what we once shared. Life goes on and like one has said before, distant makes things slowly become a blur.
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    May 27, 2011 2:05 PM GMT
    I can still count all the guys I dated on one hand, and i think of every one of them from time to time, because they touched my heart, and one I have always missed was infected with AIDS in the 80s.
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    May 27, 2011 2:05 PM GMT
    Sure.

    One is an ex who has since passed away. I was totally and completely besotted with him. He was a few years older than me, though, and at that time and in that place not really interested in me for the long term. He moved away and even though we later ended up in the same city, we never really connected again.

    Another is a guy who I met just as I was about to make a big life-change - smart, adorable, but just coming out. I was more looking forward to what was coming up for me than the here and now, and at the time not interested in the whole coming out drama. I think he really had a serious thing for me but I just deflected it. We've become facebook friends within the past year - he still looks great, 25 years later.
  • rf_dal

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    May 27, 2011 2:07 PM GMT
    Oh man, yes, yes indeed.... sigh...
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    May 28, 2011 8:38 PM GMT
    I sometimes think about the first guy I had sex with. I always think, "What ever happened to Warren?" icon_smile.gif
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    May 28, 2011 8:43 PM GMT
    of course.... I agree that it's human nature.

    there's a few people...I can't say I would ever reconnect with them (I've tried and now I've shut that door) but I will say that I wonder how those people are doing...

    but then I remember how I'm much better off now, and I'm in a much better place icon_smile.gif