Would you ever date a virgin???? Is it a turn offf

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    May 27, 2011 11:54 AM GMT
    well ever since I was a younger teenager I always what they call hard to get and would not even let a guy touch me cause I will flipout. Or I will not even give any man my number cause I always feel that they only want one thing and now here I am 19 and still a virgin. And to even put more pressure on me I the only virgin in my group of friends they always tell me that I shoukd loosin up cause imma die alone and still be a virgin.... Guys what yall thank
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    May 27, 2011 2:07 PM GMT
    No not a turn off.
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    May 27, 2011 2:14 PM GMT
    It's not a turn off. But are you afraid of touch?

    I used to be becuase it was something that was incredibly important to me. Now, I enjoy it and realize that there are soo many differnt kinds of touches. Some are sensual. Some are friendly. Some are loving. Some are jocular.
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    May 30, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    i'm 18 and i'm also a virgin, i dont afraid of being touched yet i've always wanted to have sex with another virgin guy LOL weird me!
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    May 30, 2011 5:12 PM GMT
    doubtful, because if you're a virgin at my age, that's very odd. and i don't date very young guys. they could be my son. it's too weird
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    May 30, 2011 5:35 PM GMT
    Virgin doesn't matter because even if you aren't... you still should take it slow with penetration.

    Some people see it as a turn on... others do not. Most gay/bisexual teens don't even lose their virginity until late teens or early twenties. Don't sweat it.

  • May 30, 2011 5:40 PM GMT
    Define virgin?
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    May 30, 2011 8:34 PM GMT
    yes. i would. i like the idea of me being his first and teach him things
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    May 30, 2011 9:02 PM GMT
    Buckyou saidyes. i would. i like the idea of me being his first and teach him things


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    May 31, 2011 1:20 AM GMT
    Virgin or no virgin does not matter to me.

    I lost my virginity at 21 so don't feel bad at 19. I know what it feels like to be made fun of for being a virgin. I lost mine just to prove my brother wrong b/c he would taunt me and call me The virgin mary and told me nobody wanted to be with me.

    You're doing something respectable but my advice would be to not wait forever because when you finally see what you've been missing you might be angry for all the time you've missed. Do it with someone what you're comfortable with.



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    May 31, 2011 1:55 AM GMT
    Sex is what you make it. To some people its just sex, and others it is so much more. Just do what feels comfortable. I was a virgin until a few months ago, and honestly I was not in any rush to have sex. Just let it happen when the time is right. Don't seek it out, and don't feel the need to repress it and save it for the "perfect" guy.
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    May 31, 2011 4:17 AM GMT
    Im still a virgin, but not because im a loser. its because im saving it for someone i care about. i want that to be special because losing it will be something you remember.

    just keep onto it until you find the right person. it will be worth it.
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    Jun 01, 2011 1:30 PM GMT
    Not weird at all... kinda cute even.
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    Jun 01, 2011 1:37 PM GMT
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    Jun 01, 2011 2:31 PM GMT
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  • mizu5

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    Jun 01, 2011 6:13 PM GMT
    Guys often voerlook me because I haven't bottomed yet, OR that's the only thing on their minds.
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    Jun 01, 2011 8:07 PM GMT
    Same here thats why im holdin on to my v card icon_sad.gif