Last year my best friend stabbed me in the back and lied to me about everything after I was like the best friend she ever had. She's still trying to win me back to this day.
From that day on I vowed I would be %100 honest. And honestly FUCK compassion! It means nothing, if they can't handle the cold raw honest truth which has been given to them they deserve to be lied to and be told everything in life is sugar coated. I say hear what you needa hear and move the fuck on, of course there will still be doubts upon themselves, but they need to learn to accept it. Yesterday I was in the biggest argument with all these guys because how I handled myself over someones questioning, and apparently my response was too harsh. Yes, it was. But so are many forceful things in life that need to get done. But I also offered constructive criticism as well, and left it at that.
End of story, if someones to fucking pathetic to take it, then they too fucking pathetic for life. They're only words. And in everyday society, even at work. When ppl r told off they automatically take it as an attack. And don't take the feedback from it. Pathetic.
If someones giving you honesty. Hold onto that motherfucker for dear life. Cuz that's a true fucking friend. Compassion will do nothing for you when you're 400 LBS and about to keel over.
Thank you for this thread