Organized sex parties - would you go (or have you gone) to them?

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    May 27, 2011 4:25 PM GMT
    One of the few things I haven't done yet... I am wondering just how common place this sort of thing is.

    For an idea of what I mean, go here:

    http://www.adventuresingroupsex.blogspot.com

    Would you ever do something like this - or have you?

    No judgments, just curious.
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    May 27, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    I haven't, sorry! Haven't even been to a disorganized one lol.

    Isn't there a lot of awkwardness with those?
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    May 27, 2011 8:06 PM GMT
    No idea... never been to one myself. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 28, 2011 12:10 AM GMT
    I would right now all weekend if you gave me a ride with you.
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    May 28, 2011 12:27 AM GMT
    I've been twice, but it's not my thing. Always way more guys I wasn't interested in. I also don't have an exhibitionist streak and I want to control who is touching me (or worse icon_wink.gif ).
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    May 28, 2011 11:28 AM GMT
    I've been to one, it was this year actually. There was the host and three guys including me that played together. There were plenty of condoms, lube and a bottle of fresh poppers. They had one guy that was a little dodgy that came but left before I arrived. It wasn't great for me 'cos I couldn't get hard at all which freaked me out. All day I was thinking and was pretty relaxed about it and ended up too relaxed!

    The other guys were great, had a good chat with all, one was a regular that attended the hosts' parties before and the other guy was a really good looking young guy my age that bottomed (the other two were in their forties). But I'm kicking myself that I screwed up 'cos I'd like to go to more of the parties with those guys but they haven't contacted me again.
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    May 28, 2011 5:30 PM GMT
    I'd probably go to one just to check it out...

    I've been invited to one but it was... uhm... very unappealing after a message or two.
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    May 28, 2011 6:23 PM GMT
    Organized sex parties - would you go (or have you gone) to them?

    I have, a few times, but never strictly a sex party only. They all were in conjunction with a gay naturist (nudist) club to which I belonged for a couple of years. When we'd have a gathering of a couple dozen guys at someone's private residence, as opposed to a health spa, bar or other public place that was temporarily closed for us, we might have a sex house party afterwards.

    But never during the official meeting, which ran until about 10 PM. Then if our host the house owner invited us to stay after the event formally concluded, as his personal guests, no longer a function of the club, we knew that meant sex for all who remained. And not all did.

    That's what happened at my very first meeting. By 10:10 PM there was a mass of naked guys all over the place, getting fucked on the floor, on the sofas, everywhere. All with towels under us, since naturist etiquette is to always bring one for yourself, never sitting or laying with bare skin touching objects.

    I got lucky, the guy who really interested me hitting on me, and we got it on. It was kinda exciting to see all these other naked guys around us, fucking like bunnies. We kept it simple, just the 2 of us, no 3-ways. In fact, in subsequent visits to that city I always stayed with him and slept in his bed, and whenever we had a sex after-party at one of these gatherings, I always paired with him.
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    May 29, 2011 12:16 PM GMT
    Yes I have participated. These experiences were many years ago and I know of a lot of guys who have been to many of these events.

    The advice I have been given is that organised orgies are usually very cliquey and seldom ever go off properly. Yet the random group encounters (after a dance/circuit party or a night out at the clubs/bars) where a group of people agree to hook up at either a persons home or other venue, are the ones which really get down and dirty and are the best experiences.

    I was also once told by a very experienced guy that he never gets involved with anymore than a threesome since it becomes really impersonal and people tend to end up treating each other like pieces of meat when there are more than three (or four). Which I have to say I agree with him on that point.

    Whether I will do it again. A threesome, yes. A group orgy, no. There are too many risks involved and over the years I have come to know of many guys who regularly engage in these practices and have found they are pretty un-disciplined, emotionally unstable and have little regard for others.

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    May 29, 2011 2:42 PM GMT
    Hey guys, if you check out the blog, you'll see that there are all kinds of parties -- some for hot guys only, others for average guys, and some that let anyone in. Also some parties are very strict about safe sex, others not, Also, for the more adventurous-- fetish parties, You gotta be into it, but it can be an amazing amount of fun and a great way to make new friends. One of the best (and safest) is this Wed night: PRIVATE PARTY. It's a very social party with a terrific group of hot guys. I never miss it. It's always reviewed on the site: www.adventuresingroupsex.blogspot.com.
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    May 30, 2011 3:19 PM GMT
    EvanMcCarthy saidHey guys, if you check out the blog, you'll see that there are all kinds of parties -- some for hot guys only, others for average guys, and some that let anyone in. Also some parties are very strict about safe sex, others not, Also, for the more adventurous-- fetish parties, You gotta be into it, but it can be an amazing amount of fun and a great way to make new friends. One of the best (and safest) is this Wed night: PRIVATE PARTY. It's a very social party with a terrific group of hot guys. I never miss it. It's always reviewed on the site: www.adventuresingroupsex.blogspot.com.


    It'd would be good to disclose that you run the website.
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    May 30, 2011 7:28 PM GMT
    When I lived in NYC back in '98, I went to a couple of these parties with a friend. The standard procedure required a few interviews in front of a panel of 3 people, which then selected you based on physical features, personality, and socioeconomic status. With a little coaxing to the host from my friend, he agreed to let me show up with the understanding I could be turned away at the door. I wasn't. It was fun to observe, but wasn't really my thing. I did, however, end up dating the host of the parties for a few months.

    now that I'm in a different mindset, it would be fun to revisit. Most of the guys were smoking hot....
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    May 31, 2011 11:08 PM GMT
    Might be a very good way to "get started",,,,,,,,,bicurious.icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:47 AM GMT
    paintyou said Might be a very good way to "get started",,,,,,,,,bicurious.icon_rolleyes.gif
    Jumpstart it bitch!
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    Jun 02, 2011 6:54 AM GMT
    Dionn_Runk saidI would right now all weekend if you gave me a ride with you.


    Yea hes hot hey but Im in a relationship so I cannot eat from the menu just admire the menu.

    Alphatrigger honestly I would not do orgies with anyone for morral and religious reasons but mainly the chances of Hiv infection and who knows what ever else a person will get from those pleasures.

    Don
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    Jun 02, 2011 6:58 AM GMT
    I have far too much class to go to one even just to look.
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    Jun 02, 2011 8:14 AM GMT
    and the NOM posts have started.... dirty gays, I am better than that blablabla

    What´s wrong with "I just have no interest in that kind of thing"?

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    Jun 04, 2011 9:36 PM GMT
    I like the idea of walking into a room of hot HOT guys and just jumping naked into the middle of it all....but I'm sure the reality of it is kind of like the reality of a bathhouse....where I walk in and think to myself...."hey, these guys look nothing like the guys on the poster!" icon_evil.gif
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    Jun 04, 2011 9:47 PM GMT
    mocktwinkie saidI haven't, sorry! Haven't even been to a disorganized one lol.

    Isn't there a lot of awkwardness with those?


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    Aren't they like all disorganized though? ....But I wouldn't know now, would I ?
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    Jun 04, 2011 11:28 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidand the NOM posts have started.... dirty gays, I am better than that blablabla

    What´s wrong with "I just have no interest in that kind of thing"?

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    What is a NOM post?
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    Jun 28, 2011 12:35 AM GMT
    There are plenty of safe-sex only parties -- in fact the best one is WED night -- called Private Party is a private loft apt -- amazing guys, AND YES -- I run the blog -- full disclosure. But I do it for fun only. No perks!!
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    Jun 28, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    I've been to a handful, but so far haven't enjoyed one...kinda boring actually. Anything more than 3 or 4 specifically chosen guys would be too many to keep up with.
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    Jun 28, 2011 12:54 AM GMT
    alphatrigger said
    Lostboy saidand the NOM posts have started.... dirty gays, I am better than that blablabla

    What´s wrong with "I just have no interest in that kind of thing"?

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    What is a NOM post?
    http://www.nationformarriage.org
    NOM-H8s-gays
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    Jun 28, 2011 11:31 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    alphatrigger said
    Lostboy saidand the NOM posts have started.... dirty gays, I am better than that blablabla

    What´s wrong with "I just have no interest in that kind of thing"?

    icon_rolleyes.gif


    What is a NOM post?
    http://www.nationformarriage.org
    NOM-H8s-gays


    Me no likey.
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    Jun 28, 2011 11:39 PM GMT
    I been to a sex party once with a friend it was a bilatino party... I didnt do anything though I was just having fun lots if hot latin men there ;)