"You're better than my wife!"

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    Apr 11, 2008 3:39 PM GMT
    Hi icon_smile.gif
    So ... here's what happened to me last week.
    I had sex with a 32 year old guy. Okay, I know it's too much, but he was just soooo hot... anyway, so we have THE sex, everything is cool and the next moment we're just lying in bed and he says "Gee... you're so better than my wife" and I'm like ... icon_eek.gif You have a wife?!.
    That bastard told me he "forgot" to tell me he's married...

    Now.. the thing is - would you continue fucking him or would you just forget about it and go on? icon_neutral.gif
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    Apr 11, 2008 7:56 PM GMT
    That depends on what you're looking for. If it's just sex, then why not continue? Just be discreet. If you're looking for a relationship, then ... he may not be a good choice.
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    Apr 11, 2008 8:03 PM GMT
    I wouldnt do it if the wife doesnt know that he is doing this kind of thing. If he is in transition or something and she knows, then I dont think it is a problem. There are lots and lots of guys out there, you dont need one who is cheating.
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    Apr 11, 2008 8:06 PM GMT
    I've had the same thing happen to me. I've also been the one cheated on. I would never knowingly be with someone who is attached. It's just bad karma.
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    Apr 11, 2008 8:10 PM GMT
    I would drop him and move on. I doubt that his wife knows. If he says she does, I am not sure I would believe him. I hate it when guys I have just slept with give me the old "oh didn't I tell you?" line. One of the first guys I had sex with did that to me. I didn't realize it but he had a partner! I was not impressed that he was cheating on him with me.

    Look for somebody with fewer strings attached, there are lots of good looking gay guys in the world (just do some browsing on this website).
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    Apr 11, 2008 9:29 PM GMT
    Fuck him and then drop him.
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    Apr 11, 2008 10:58 PM GMT
    That is some BS! How do you just forget to tell someone your married? Was he wearing his wedding ring? If not, he knew what he was doing and meant to lie to you.
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    Apr 12, 2008 12:42 AM GMT
    NO!!!!!!icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 12, 2008 3:51 AM GMT
    gymguy1 saidThat is some BS! How do you just forget to tell someone your married? Was he wearing his wedding ring? If not, he knew what he was doing and meant to lie to you.

    I don't really know if he wore it - I didn't exactly look for a wedding ring.
    True, there are lots of other guys, but if we say that every times... sooner or later we run out of cool guys icon_biggrin.gif I'm far from that point though...
    The moral point of view isn't exactly the one that bothers me.
    I guess I knew nothing serious could happen with such an older guy, but still... he IS a good catch. Too bad I guess...

    Thanks to the ones who replied ;)

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    Apr 12, 2008 11:14 AM GMT
    He's a good catch....just be careful and try not to catch feelings. If he cheats on his wife, he can cheat on you....And who's to say he will leave his wife to be with you. This happens all the time and the 3rd person usually ends up alone in the end.
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    Apr 12, 2008 12:13 PM GMT
    Someday you're going to be somebodys wife, just rememeber that...

    Also, I hope you were safe, really, really safe...
    You could also tape you's having sex and put it on xtube or blackmail him.
    That should fix his cheating a$$...
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    Apr 12, 2008 4:36 PM GMT
    Well, I always play safe. As for taping him... It's not my job to tell his wife or anyone else.
    I decided to stop seeing him... he IS cute, but come on - he is a cheater. I would never want to be cheated on...

    I don't know, I've never cheated on somebody and I can't imagine how he can live with himself.

    Have you ever cheated??
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    Apr 12, 2008 6:02 PM GMT
    women dont have enough libido to satisfy male urges.if he needs it,dont let this hottie wasted by an undesirous women.
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    Apr 13, 2008 7:41 AM GMT
    I agree turk!
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    Apr 13, 2008 12:12 PM GMT
    No.

    I feel sorry for his wife. One mistake, and he'd pass on whatever he's getting from his discrete affairs to a wife he doesn't deserve.
  • Timbales

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    Apr 13, 2008 3:23 PM GMT
    I wouldn't go near him again. What else could he be hiding?
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    Apr 13, 2008 4:22 PM GMT
    Timberoo saidI wouldn't go near him again. What else could he be hiding?


    like the clap...are you sure he did have psoriasis on his manly parts?
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    Apr 14, 2008 12:37 AM GMT
    turk saidwomen dont have enough libido to satisfy male urges.if he needs it,dont let this hottie wasted by an undesirous women.
    but i also feel sorry about her. secret gays shouldnt get married with women.it is just unfair, cruelty for those women