So I'm a bottom!

  • brskee76

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    May 29, 2011 1:52 PM GMT
    So I've started to hook up with guys after being so terrified of being gay and I'm starting to discover that I love being fucked up the arse (or ass for my US brothers!). I've always thought (and been terrified) that being a bottom meant that you were that submissive, weaker partner but what I discovered is that is completely untrue. Maybe I'm a more "aggressive" bottom but I don't think being a bottom means you are lesser in the relationship but the it means you're equal in the whole thing. Could porn have lied to me that I actually should lie back and be treated like shit rather than have the power to put my arse on some guys dick? I've love to hear from guys who love to be bottoms, I was so terrified of the idea that I would be less of a man as a bottom but I've realised that is so not the case! ;-)
  • Koaa2

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    May 29, 2011 2:14 PM GMT
    Enjoy, being a bottom has nothing to do about masculinity or being anything less in a relationship..
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    May 30, 2011 5:26 AM GMT
    I dnt feel embarrassed admiting that I like to play as bottom. Its an amazing feeling when i feel my hole is filled up with some nice stuff. I feel like complete.COLORED TEXT GOES HERE
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    May 30, 2011 6:07 AM GMT
    Good for you. Practice with dildos help also. You should start doing that from now on when you masturbate.
  • dalek19

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    May 30, 2011 5:14 PM GMT
    im a top but in my mind the bottoms got all the power...if he knows what hes doin that is.
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    May 30, 2011 9:13 PM GMT
    RESIZED TEXT GOES HERECOLORED TEXT GOES HEREI love being bottom it is beautiful
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    May 31, 2011 8:33 AM GMT

    Not all bottoms are submissive, and bottoms are equal to tops. That includes submissive bottoms.

    I've never had sex, but I'd like the kind where the top treats the bottom like shit, but it's part of a fantasy, and once the fun is over, there should be complete mutual respect.
  • FireChange_86

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    Oct 12, 2013 10:19 PM GMT
    I'm more leaning towards bottom, for a while I thought that I 'had' to be more versatile or something, but the honest truth is that some people like what they like. I'd still top for the right guy and I'd only bottom for someone I loved.

    I have a saying 'what happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom - emotionally' - Meaning: You may be submissive or the bottom when making love, but when you're making decisions together as a unit, you still make those decisions as a team, with mutual love, respect and equality.

    One problem is that guys expect the guy with bigger doodle to be the top. This is very annoying. For example, Have you ever taken a really big one? It's awful! When average hits the spot just right, why would anyone want anything bigger?
  • FireChange_86

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    Oct 12, 2013 10:22 PM GMT
    That's not to say that being a bottom or submissive makes you less than equal. It's more like, sometimes when you're in that moment, it can seem like you're submissive and there's this masculine power-instinct thing going on. Kind of like when a boydog humps another boy dog to show him who's boss.

    As we aren't animals, I like to think we can move past that instinctual kind of thinking, but I'll admit that sometimes It's kind of kooky and fun.
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    Oct 13, 2013 12:17 AM GMT
    Well, it depends which kind of bottom, most of them do like to be submissive. And most flamers are also bottoms, hence the cliche.
  • jasian

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    Oct 13, 2013 2:14 AM GMT
    I think tops like confident bottoms, haha. I would love to try different things to please my partner. If he wants to be dominant, I would be submissive. If he lies back, I will go for it. I am GGG.
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    Oct 13, 2013 2:55 AM GMT
    I am a bottom, too! icon_smile.gif

    And I love to have some hot conversations, and a little bit more on webcam... ;)

    If anyone want to talk to me, just add me on skype!


    I will like it! icon_smile.gif