Have you ever love your friend? like me !

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    May 29, 2011 2:47 PM GMT
    He comes from Turkey. We study together at university. We were both single, are close friends, very, I started to like him more friend I do everything for him, I wanted him to stay by my side all the time, but I can not tell him. know that secretly in love with him, we often talked on the phone and I would say that I miss and love him, and he said OK, we are graduate already. sometimes we have to separate to work abroad. Several months at a time, he will say that he love me !.

    i don't know how dose he think ?
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    How should I do?, I wanted him to know that I want to be his partner. And love each other forever.

    But it's not easy to do
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    May 29, 2011 3:06 PM GMT

    I would say that perhaps you should tell him EXACTLY how you feel about him...and see what his response is. You already know how you feel about him...so it seems the next step is for you to find out how he feels about you.
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    May 29, 2011 3:25 PM GMT
    Friendsrbetter said
    I would say that perhaps you should tell him EXACTLY how you feel about him...and see what his response is. You already know how you feel about him...so it seems the next step is for you to find out how he feels about you.


    Thanks Friendsrbette

    i should to do like that . just wait time asap
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    May 29, 2011 10:59 PM GMT
    Is he straight or gay? If he's straight, get over it and don't tell him icon_razz.gif
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    May 29, 2011 11:24 PM GMT
    Let's keep it simple. How about:

    "I really enjoy spending time and being around you. I would love to explore a romantic relationship with you. If you don't feel that, then your friendship is more than enough."
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    May 29, 2011 11:28 PM GMT
    If you think he is gay, go for it. If you don't then you are just setting yourself up for disappointment.
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    May 30, 2011 3:06 AM GMT
    i think , even if he is straight, he may fall in love with you ,,,
    believe me gays,,, if your friend is straight and you behave in a way that shows how much you care about him, how much you love him. he might love you...
    when i was in egypt before comming to kuwait for work, i had lots of straight friends
    one said to me ( kareem why i feel like , i dont need my girlfriend while i am with you )
    and someone said ( i wanna kiss you ) even they dont know i am gay . by the way i am still vergin ..icon_razz.gif

    so, go ahead and text him ,, and tell him your feeling ,, you cant hide this, feeling anymore ,,, if he likes you , he will response and if not ,,, then at least you knew that there is no hope so you can look for someone else, whatever
    so,,, text him ( tell him your feeling )
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    May 30, 2011 3:16 AM GMT
    kemoze saidi think , even if he is straight, he may fall in love with you ,,,believe me gays,,, if your friend is straight and you behave in a way that shows how much you care about him, how much you love him. he might love you...
    when i was in egypt before comming to kuwait for work, i had lots of straight friends
    one said to me ( kareem why i feel like , i dont need my girlfriend while i am with you )
    and someone said ( i wanna kiss you ) even they dont know i am gay . by the way i am still vergin ..icon_razz.gif

    so, go ahead and text him ,, and tell him your feeling ,, you cant hide this, feeling anymore ,,, if he likes you , he will response and if not ,,, then at least you knew that there is no hope so you can look for someone else, whatever
    so,,, text him ( tell him your feeling )


    LOLOLLOLOLOLOLOL!!! You're not serious are you?! Then he was never straight to start with.
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    May 30, 2011 3:23 AM GMT
    kemoze, that's understandable, but I think what your friends told you can mean different things.

    When your friend said he doesn't feel he needs a girlfriend when he's around you, maybe he just meant you fulfilled his need for companionship, even through basic friendship. He may not have felt the way you think. The same may have gone for the guy who said he could kiss you.

    Some of my good straight friends say that I'm the only gay guy they'd ever have sex with, but I don't take it to mean they really wanna have sex with me. I think they just meant (in an odd, roundabout way) that they think I'm cool regardless of my sexual orientation. In those cases I'm just happy that I'm opening up their minds into realizing that stereotypes are just that; stereotypes!

  • kemoze

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    May 30, 2011 4:35 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]waimea said[/cite]
    kemoze saidi think , even if he is straight, he may fall in love with you ,,,believe me gays,,, if your friend is straight and you behave in a way that shows how much you care about him, how much you love him. he might love you...
    when i was in egypt before comming to kuwait for work, i had lots of straight friends
    one said to me ( kareem why i feel like , i dont need my girlfriend while i am with you )
    and someone said ( i wanna kiss you ) even they dont know i am gay . by the way i am still vergin ..icon_razz.gif

    so, go ahead and text him ,, and tell him your feeling ,, you cant hide this, feeling anymore ,,, if he likes you , he will response and if not ,,, then at least you knew that there is no hope so you can look for someone else, whatever
    so,,, text him ( tell him your feeling )


    LOLOLLOLOLOLOLOL!!! You're not serious are you?! Then he was never straight to start with.[/qu
    He is straight ,,,
    yeah my friend is straight , i never had a gay friend.all my friends are straight
    they all have their girl friends,,
    but lots of time i feel like they feel something towards me..
    yeah , there was such a kind of feeling between me and my friends,,
    its like chemistry..... i dont know .. but this is true.. but not all straight gays of course.. it depends on you,
  • kemoze

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    May 30, 2011 4:47 PM GMT
    Gaydar saidkemoze, that's understandable, but I think what your friends told you can mean different things.

    When your friend said he doesn't feel he needs a girlfriend when he's around you, maybe he just meant you fulfilled his need for companionship, even through basic friendship. He may not have felt the way you think. The same may have gone for the guy who said he could kiss you.

    Some of my good straight friends say that I'm the only gay guy they'd ever have sex with, but I don't take it to mean they really wanna have sex with me. I think they just meant (in an odd, roundabout way) that they think I'm cool regardless of my sexual orientation. In those cases I'm just happy that I'm opening up their minds into realizing that stereotypes are just that; stereotypes!




    i totally understand what you are saying , and i felt they way you feel now,
    actually as i said before it depends much more on you ...
    for example ,, if you are so cool
    and take care of your friends, also if you keep a great smile on your face,, and the way you look. ( when your eyes full of love and warm ),, and if your body is so hot and you keep it fit ,,
    but dont behave in a feminine way .. just be you..
    by the way ,, lots of time my friends have sent me a written songs in a text message it were all about love.........................................
    ........................ and they are still straight,,,
    sometimes i feel like gays are much more hot than women........icon_redface.gif