May 30, 2011 2:40 PM GMT
Why is it do you think a lot of inshape, masculine, intelligent bruthaz exclusively date whites? I mean I have dated asian and latino men here and there so don't get me wrong I have nothing against interracial dating..but 90% of the time I date other bruthaz. And 90% of my boyfriends where black. I mean hear all types of reasons..like "I grew up around whites so that's why I connect with them" or "it just my prefrence". In which I turn to say how so? They can't give me a reason. If you as me why I have a"prefrence" on something I can give you logical reason..so I think that's bull%#@t. My first boyfriend grew up around whites all his life in nj. But when he became of age he moved to philly he said it was for city life and to be more around other black men. It seem to me no matter what race you are you should embrace your culture good and bad. I cannot understand why someone wouldn't want to be around anyone like themselves. It so man types of personalities in every race so I can't see you not connecting to some guy of your own race. I mean nothing wrong with dating out your race..but how can you just exclusively date white men? I mean I meant plenty of buthaz that you would call "oreo cookies" and they exclusively date whites. Be inshape,masculine and intelligent is far from being a "white thing". Is it just self lothing or just learned behavior?