How many guys are on your hotlist? How do you choose who to hotlist?

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    Apr 11, 2008 10:38 PM GMT
    Someone posted a thread here the other day saying they were flattered when someone hotlisted them, until he saw this person had over 800 guys on the hotlist. He felt this cheapened the value of being on this guy's hotlist.

    There are a lot of hot guys here. It's not surprising that someone could rack up over 800.

    For me, I have 42 right now. I hotlist guys that I think are physically hot (the most obvious). But I also hotlist guys who have written something intriguing in their profile, who show extraordinary intelligence, or who have shown a good sense of humor. Some are there because they show an amusing personality on video chat. Some are guys I simply want to remember for one reason or another, more like a bookmark than a hotlist.

    So how many guys do you have on your hotlist and what makes you hotlist someone.
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    Apr 11, 2008 10:58 PM GMT
    I have zero. Although there are some stunning people here, both looks and personality, I was simply never motivated to use the hot list feature.
    I prefer to tell them in person, in a round-about sort of way.
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    Apr 12, 2008 3:55 AM GMT
    I have over 300. Sometimes I just hotlist someone based on their pictures...other times its there profile. A few times I have had the pleasure of talking to a few guys and have hotlisted them that way. I am in the process now of deleting the guys that do not have anything written in their profiles.
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    Apr 12, 2008 3:57 AM GMT
    19 and I think the world of everyone of them.
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    Apr 12, 2008 4:09 AM GMT
    If he appeals to my eye, I hotlist him. It's as simple as that.
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    Apr 12, 2008 4:09 AM GMT
    I use it as kind of a bookmarks folder.

    Sometimes my big head puts guys on there.

    Sometimes my small head does.

    I usually won't put someone on there who smells fake tho (i.e. one supernaturally hot picture and no other info or forum posts). My part time job is helping the RJ team delete those. I think I'm somewhere close to twenty kills now. icon_smile.gif

    I reserve buddies for people I make some significant connection with, usually in real life, but not always.

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    Apr 12, 2008 4:18 AM GMT
    Well, I only added one guy for now... who I think is REALLY hot.

    But I don't really like to compliment strangers so I guess I wouldn't be adding ppl to my hot list too often.. icon_smile.gif
  • bradsmith

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    Apr 12, 2008 5:03 AM GMT
    If I see a guy I think is hot...which simply means that there's something that I find attractive about the guy (visually, mentally, etc.)...he goes on my list...yeah, there's way too many on there so it's a cheap place I guess...but as someone else pointed out, there's a lot of hot guys on RJ! And, if you check out my list, it's not all young, white muscled studs...although there's plenty of them because well, they're hot!

    But I think a compliment is always a compliment...and there's too many people tearing us down in the world...so I don't care if there's 2 or 2,000 on my hotlist...if I put you there, it's because I think you're hot...and that may be for a wide variety of reasons!

  • auryn

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    Apr 12, 2008 5:07 AM GMT
    I don't have any, currently, I feel kinda weird putting anyone on a hot list since I'm in a monogamous relationship until I've talked it over with my boyfriend. Perhaps I'm just whipped.
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    Apr 12, 2008 5:09 AM GMT
    None you are all HOT!
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    Apr 12, 2008 5:19 AM GMT
    iguanaI usually won't put someone on there who smells fake tho (i.e. one supernaturally hot picture and no other info or forum posts).


    If only it were that easy - I know of a guy that creates multiple fake profiles replete with detailed information and entire online personalities that are sometimes very vocal in the forums. It's all so tedious. I've gotten to the point where I'm skeptical about anyone who's really attractive and not verified, unfortunately.
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    Apr 12, 2008 5:26 AM GMT
    TurkishDelight saidNone you are all HOT!


    I think you have the hottie! Damn - your lucky! icon_wink.gif
  • Muunrakur

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    Apr 12, 2008 5:37 AM GMT
    I don't think I'm going to hotlist anyone. I realize that it can simply be a compliment, but I sort of feel like its disrespectful to my man for me to publicly display guys I think are "hot"... maybe I'm being too sensitive, but I don't see any reason to do anything that might give him reason to doubt that he's all I want.

    Plus, I've been on these forums for maybe 5 days and have very vanilla pictures posted, yet I already had someone message me to let me know how horny he was... I don't think hotlisting people will help put a stop to that.
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    Apr 12, 2008 7:57 AM GMT
    I like these guys on my hotlist. I try not to make it about a reward/ignore system...but ultimately each of the guys has a quality I like in a man. Some of the guys are not my physical type, but have enchanted me in the forums or have been friendly by e-mail.

    I know you can be notified when someone hotlists you, but I don't actually go out of my way to tell them when I do it, because I don't want them to think they have to reciprocate...they're my personal wish list.
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    Apr 12, 2008 8:00 AM GMT
    I only have one person on my hotlist as it stands simple because he did as I asked or rather what is stated in my profile. He's also on my buddylist too. A guy who can respect me will always go far with me and I'll always be willing to want to add them as a friend or whatever.

    Just that simple in my online world. Physical looks, mental awareness, a good sense of humor and similar interests are goods areas to start too. Anyone on my buddy list list will probably end up on my hotlist since all my they are pretty much the same thing (in my opinion).
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    Apr 12, 2008 8:02 AM GMT
    159... icon_redface.gif

    I can't help it!

    I hotlist for the body/mind/personality. There's just too many. *sigh*
  • MattyC0709

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    Apr 12, 2008 8:47 AM GMT
    Me being straight, it should come to no surprise that no one is in my hotlist! Had you all been women, well... that's a different story! Heehee! icon_biggrin.gificon_lol.gificon_razz.gificon_wink.gif
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    Apr 12, 2008 9:12 AM GMT
    But I AM a woman. Deep inside... DEEP DEEP inside.

    Come find how deep. *wink wink*

    j/k LOL icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 12, 2008 9:26 AM GMT
    Sedative14 saidBut I AM a woman. Deep inside... DEEP DEEP inside.

    Come find how deep. *wink wink*

    j/k LOL icon_razz.gif

    Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!! Maybe I'll hire another guy to check it out for ya! icon_biggrin.gificon_lol.gificon_razz.gificon_wink.gif
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    Apr 12, 2008 11:14 AM GMT
    Yeah, I've got an extensive hotlist, and it's mainly from the pictures that are posted.. but there are quite a few guys that are on it because of the funny/sassy/witty/or just really cool nature of what they say.

    the hotlist is for guys you think are hot.. however many that may be, the buddy list is for guys you chat with or relate to on a more personal level

    and that's one to grow onicon_biggrin.gif
  • GQjock

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    Apr 12, 2008 11:22 AM GMT
    I have twenty guys there ....

    The criteria would be .... That they're hot? icon_wink.gif

    It's kinda my gay Christmas wish list
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    Apr 12, 2008 11:39 AM GMT
    Well, don't want to give anyone a big head, unless it's in person, so I haven't hot listed anyone yet. But there are plenty who are HOT!
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    Apr 12, 2008 12:03 PM GMT
    Lapinblanc saidthe hotlist is for guys you think are hot.. however many that may be, the buddy list is for guys you chat with or relate to on a more personal level

    That's pretty much how I see it.
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    Apr 12, 2008 12:11 PM GMT
    I will add someone to my hot list if they are attractive, I like what they say and obviously put some thought into their profile. These are my favorite.

    Others I just add if I say "wow" (or any other word with the same meaning) when I see their pics. If nothing is in the profile or I have not chatted with them it's strictly just an eye-candy thing.

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    Apr 12, 2008 12:31 PM GMT
    iguanaSF said
    I usually won't put someone on there who smells fake ...


    Online I live in Malibu
    I pose for Calvin Klein, I've been in GQ
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    And I've got a set of six pack abs that would blow your mind

    When you got my kind of stats
    It's hard to get a date
    Let alone a real girlfriend
    But I grow another foot and I lose a bunch of weight
    Every time I login

    from "Online" by Brad Paisley