what's clean enough for sex

  • newbiebottom

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    May 31, 2011 1:07 AM GMT
    so, im in a committed relationship, though i am new to bottoming and dont do it a ton. have tried douching, etc ,and have never had a problem. i prefer to just shower and make sure i am finger clean. for those with a lot of experience in this area, is being finger clean after a good bowel movement usually enough? when i bear down, i begin to feel the end of a piece of stool. would u go ahead and have sex if that was the case?
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    May 31, 2011 3:34 AM GMT
    Douche. For your own pleasure and that of your top.
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    May 31, 2011 8:36 AM GMT
    newbiebottom saidso, im in a committed relationship, though i am new to bottoming and dont do it a ton. have tried douching, etc ,and have never had a problem. i prefer to just shower and make sure i am finger clean. for those with a lot of experience in this area, is being finger clean after a good bowel movement usually enough? when i bear down, i begin to feel the end of a piece of stool. would u go ahead and have sex if that was the case?


    Er, no. My dick is significantly bigger than your finger, so if your finger is touching shit my dick is going to be smashing into it, which will not only be uncomfortable for you, it's also going to lead to mess/smell.

    Ideally you should be as squeaky clean as you can possibly be for bottoming. If you're not sure, use a dildo on yourself after you've douched and if it's clean then you're good to go - if not, keep on rinsing!
  • newbiebottom

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    May 31, 2011 9:40 PM GMT
    thats the thing, i usually am clean with the dildo.
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    Jun 01, 2011 3:34 AM GMT
    Being a good bottom is about respecting your top. The vast majority of tops are completely turned off by a dirty fuck, and at the same time really appreciate a bottom who takes the time to douche out and be clean for him.

    A good rule of thumb is to spend enough time douching that you are comfortable letting your Top trade from your ass to your mouth. If you are not that clean, then spend a little more time in the shower.
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    Jun 02, 2011 10:41 AM GMT
    SportFuck saidBeing a good bottom is about respecting your top. The vast majority of tops are completely turned off by a dirty fuck, and at the same time really appreciate a bottom who takes the time to douche out and be clean for him.

    A good rule of thumb is to spend enough time douching that you are comfortable letting your Top trade from your ass to your mouth. If you are not that clean, then spend a little more time in the shower.


    It's really not advisable to go ass-to-mouth, even if you think you're very clean inside.
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:04 PM GMT
    Wow, i once asked the same question too

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1462044/
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:46 PM GMT
    Im gonna say this again.

    If there is a 50% probability of getting some action, clean up for gods sake.

    If your top wants to throw you down on the whim of things, thats his mess.
  • shawteemax

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    Jun 02, 2011 10:26 PM GMT
    Dirty bottoms turn me off and are a reason why I don't want to bottom in hookups. Too much work for something that may not even be that good...
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    Jun 02, 2011 10:44 PM GMT
    SportFuck saidat the same time really appreciate a bottom who takes the time to douche out and be clean for him.


    I think your thinking too much about this. I dont think they give a crap. If its clean they stay and finish but If its not then they get up and leave.
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    Jun 03, 2011 12:03 AM GMT
    rectal douching has been implicated in the [incidence and risk factors of HIV and syphilis seroconversion among men who have sex with men

    so clean or not, don't forgo your condoms