bradsmith saidNope, if the guy doesn't have a six-pack, we stop and pick one up on the way home.
I've found that guys usually get the guys they deserve...so don't worry about it...someone's gonna drop in your lap sooner or later...it's just up to you to figure out when that happens.
That must be why I'm single.
Drop in my lap, huh. Please. That's what people say to make themselves feel good about being single. S*** like that doesn't happen in real life. You work to make things happen. Do jobs drop into your lap? No. Do advanced degrees drop in to your lap? I wish! Why should dating (or anything for that matter) be any different? You want something, you go out and figure out how to get it.
Damn... did i just flame you? hehe sorry, this topic gets me in a sensitive spot. I've just heard that line a bunch of times and I don't believe in coddling people.
To address the original question, I don't exclusively date muscle-dudes. A lot of what I find attractive is attitude, confidence, and intelligence. Don't mistake confidence for cockiness, which I find absolutely detestable and unattractive. Nothing turns me on more than a hot guy who is shy and modest. Well... maybe a hot guy who is shy and modest and smart and a great kisser.... ok i'm gonna be over here with my body pillow...