Why are the good ones so far away?

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    Apr 12, 2008 4:10 AM GMT
    Hey guys I dont know how many people have had this experience but I thought Id bring it up. Every decent guy I talk to seems to be way to far away to even think about having a decent relationship. I mean the best guys that have the same interests as me are all in a different country.I dont mean to offend anybody but im not into the older guys and they seem to be the closest. I just want to know that im not alone entirely alone with this problem.
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    Apr 12, 2008 4:21 AM GMT
    cuz distance....and darkness....makes everybody look better .... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 12, 2008 9:08 AM GMT
    like how vampires all look like Tom Cruise. icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:05 PM GMT
    they might seem like the right guys on the net of course..but once u meet them, they are just like the guys that live in ur village...the internet is full of bull shit..u should know that by now
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:13 PM GMT
    The problem could be that you are looking for guys on the net. I mean, you live just outside of Toronto and only an hour away from my illustrious self. There are tons of good guys around, you just have to pick them out of a crowd.
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:26 PM GMT
    Seriously, get outside and meet people... the web is great for many reasons, but you're pointing out one of the things its not necessarily great for.. connecting with people in your area.
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:33 PM GMT
    That's because it's easier to be open with someone you know you can't be with. There's less fear of rejection when the guy you're 'getting to know' lives 2000 miles away and there's little reason to expect he'll ever be able to reject you in real life.
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:41 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidThe problem could be that you are looking for guys on the net. I mean, you live just outside of Toronto and only an hour away from my illustrious self. There are tons of good guys around, you just have to pick them out of a crowd.


    Yeah, but your illustrious self has an illustrious boyfriend, what good does that do him?
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:43 PM GMT
    RunintheCity saidThat's because it's easier to be open with someone you know you can't be with.


    How true. I'm only a clever bon vivant on here. In real life, I am a troll typing this in my mother's basement, where I live.
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:46 PM GMT
    jprichva saidYeah, but your illustrious self has an illustrious boyfriend, what good does that do him?


    Just siting that some of the finest people on the planet live near by. I mean, just look at these incredible hotties.
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:49 PM GMT
    Indeed you are illustrious, the only downside is being Canadian icon_wink.gif

    I am just practicing my diplomatic skills as I have just been appointed to Condoleeza Rice's personal butt-licking squad.


    MunchingZombie said[quote][cite]jprichva said[/cite]Yeah, but your illustrious self has an illustrious boyfriend, what good does that do him?


    Just siting that some of the finest people on the planet live near by. I mean, just look at these incredible hotties. [/quote]
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:50 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie said
    Just siting that some of the finest people on the planet live near by.


    Well, true dat. You're some of my favorite folks on here, even if one of you recently traded in a sensible screen name for something like Wizard Wig, which must be some obscure joke I'm too old and feeble to get.
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:51 PM GMT
    ursamajor saidIndeed you are illustrious, the only downside is being Canadian icon_wink.gif


    Sir, being half-Canadian myself, I must take umbrage. I demand satisfaction. Will you name your seconds?
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:54 PM GMT
    ursamajor saidIndeed you are illustrious, the only downside is being Canadian icon_wink.gif


    Sir, I too take umbrage. As I am not one of those filthy, hockey lovin', beaver fur wearin', Buffalo burnin', Neil Young lovin', sensible health care havin' Canuck!
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:57 PM GMT
    jprichva said[quote][cite]ursamajor said[/cite]Indeed you are illustrious, the only downside is being Canadian icon_wink.gif


    Sir, being half-Canadian myself, I must take umbrage. I demand satisfaction. Will you name your seconds?[/quote]

    WTF you are so pushy, now you want to take my umbrage?

    I never thought of naming my seconds, but then not being Canadian I don't have INFINITE SPARE TIME.

    One-one-thousand Bob Two-one-thousand Bertha Three-one-thousand Hildegard Four-one-thousand Megan Five-one-thousand Lance Six-one-thousand Silly Putty

    Nah, impossible.
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    Apr 12, 2008 10:59 PM GMT
    ursamajor said
    Nah, impossible.


    You sport with me, sir. You shall hear from my attorneys, Dewey, Cheatham & Howe, Esqs.
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    Apr 12, 2008 11:02 PM GMT
    Ben Dover, Chris Mai, Harry Esse, Attorneys at Law LLP
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  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 13, 2008 3:03 AM GMT
    I've met some great guys that live in Toronto (back in 2000), Australia and all over the globe. I think its great to converse with guys from all over.
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    Apr 13, 2008 3:31 AM GMT
    Guys thx for the advice but i dont appreciate the canadian bashing as I am A pure bred french canadian but yeah getting out and having a social life is something i unfortunatly dont have much time for....icon_sad.gif
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    Apr 13, 2008 9:24 AM GMT
    Well let me just clarify and say that my making fun of all things Canadian is A JOKE.

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    Apr 13, 2008 10:56 AM GMT
    drac08, try living in the Philippines. ;) EVERYONE can't reach me. So why don't I feel safe? icon_razz.gif

    *me resumes begging for a plane ticket on RJ's lobby*
  • GQjock

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    Apr 13, 2008 11:40 AM GMT
    I do very well in San Diego icon_rolleyes.gif
  • DiverScience

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    Apr 13, 2008 11:46 AM GMT
    I'd kill to live in Toronto area right now. I'm an hour from anything useful here.
  • Kirby_Atwood

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    Apr 13, 2008 4:07 PM GMT
    same story here...wondering..
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    Apr 13, 2008 4:11 PM GMT
    I'm forever meeting really great guys that are way too far to realistically consider a relationship. So instead I've made a lot of great friends that I get to visit from time to time. What else can you do?