WHAT METHODS HAVE GUYS USED TO GET YOUR ATTENTION?

  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 12, 2008 1:01 PM GMT
    So I'm looking at my e-mail last night after a long day to Kansas City and the gym afterward......

    There is an e-mail from the editor of our Wichita gay newspaper (in which I occasionally advertise my professional services)

    "Interesting Phone Call"

    She proceeds to tell me her younger brother phoned her and told her a "business associate" of his would like to meet me.... Are you single??

    Last year I had someone I never knew drive by my house a number of times.....then told me about it later.
    "I saw you mowing your yard".......


    So what methods have you discovered, initiatied by others that want to meet you? What did you think?
    DID YOU MEET THEM? Have you ever done something unusual to meet someone? What were the results?
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    Apr 12, 2008 3:11 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan said
    So what methods have you discovered, initiatied by others that want to meet you?

    As if that's ever happened! If it has, I'm sadly oblivious to it.

    EDIT: On second thought, there was one guy who decided he had the right to grab my package at a club. Got my attention, but not in a way he would have liked.
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    Apr 12, 2008 3:14 PM GMT
    I'm usually on the other end, not receiving but looking. But even though I cruise a lot of guys, I don't cross the line to potentially be considered stalking them . Although some I might consider .
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    Apr 12, 2008 4:15 PM GMT
    I answered my door just this morning, and a very sweet elderly couple were on my doorstep. The woman smiled and said, "I've noticed you in the neighborhood, and I did so want to drop by and ask you a question."

    You know, this is Gayville, so I was expecting her to tell me about a son or a grandson or something, so I said, "Well, certainly, ma'am."

    She beamed and drew close. "Tell me, young man, do you have a personal relationship with Jesus?"
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    Apr 12, 2008 4:17 PM GMT
    jprichva saidI answered my door just this morning, and a very sweet elderly couple were on my doorstep. The woman smiled and said, "I've noticed you in the neighborhood, and I did so want to drop by and ask you a question."

    You know, this is Gayville, so I was expecting her to tell me about a son or a grandson or something, so I said, "Well, certainly, ma'am."

    She beamed and drew close. "Tell me, young man, do you have a personal relationship with Jesus?"


    OMG. I cannot believe that. I mean, I swear, some people. The nerve. The gall. The sheer audacity.
















    She called you 'young' man??? Aren't you like 78 or something?? icon_razz.gif
  • ShawnTX

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    Apr 12, 2008 4:23 PM GMT
    Flashing money always works for me.
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    Apr 12, 2008 4:32 PM GMT
    Some try flashing me their swollen red behinds to let me know they're "in season".

    baboon
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    Apr 12, 2008 4:34 PM GMT
    Oh my...that looks like my face when I've got my alcohol flush going. icon_eek.gif
  • ShawnTX

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    Apr 12, 2008 4:39 PM GMT
    OMG, I knew my stint in porn would come back to haunt me.
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    Apr 12, 2008 4:49 PM GMT
    I've only been to the clubs a couple of times this year and had a few guys smile, wink, some have given me the "stare." One good looking guy stood next to me and slipped his right hand in my left jean back pocket and squeezed by butt... I was shocked, I froze!
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    Apr 12, 2008 5:24 PM GMT
    ShawnTO saidFlashing money always works for me.


    ....and nips .... icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 12, 2008 5:25 PM GMT
    jprichva saidShe beamed and drew close. "Tell me, young man, do you have a personal relationship with Jesus?"


    I think I might have said, actually, I am on the phone with him right now, would you mind excusing me as it is awfully rude of me to leave him dangling.


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    Apr 12, 2008 5:26 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidSo I'm looking at my e-mail last night after a long day to Kansas City and the gym afterward......

    There is an e-mail from the editor of our Wichita gay newspaper (in which I occasionally advertise my professional services)

    "Interesting Phone Call"

    She proceeds to tell me her younger brother phoned her and told her a "business associate" of his would like to meet me.... Are you single??


    and you replied...
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    Apr 12, 2008 5:43 PM GMT
    jprichva left us hanging withShe beamed and drew close. "Tell me, young man, do you have a personal relationship with Jesus?"


    How about, "Shhhhh! Keep your voice down. He's still in the closet!"

    As to the OP's question: I don't usually notice. I'm sure skywriting would go right over my head...
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    Apr 12, 2008 6:14 PM GMT
    A FUCKEN FUNNY DRUNKEN DANCE-OFF!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!
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    Apr 12, 2008 6:40 PM GMT
    Sadly I'm unware of any tactics or drastic measure be taken to grab my attention. Talking usually works just fine.

    Sometimes the simplest appraoch has the most effect.
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    Apr 12, 2008 7:22 PM GMT
    I have just had the so-called "Normal" confrontations in the club. Except the last guy who tried it was EXTREMELY HOTT and I was SO interested.






    That is, until he tried to talk and I realized that he was completely and utterly drunk *sigh* and that's the story of my life.
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    Apr 12, 2008 7:26 PM GMT
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    Apr 12, 2008 8:17 PM GMT
    I believe it may be a strange Cincinnati thing...I noticed a lot of men staring. Not looking. Staring. But not with a nice face. With a 'ugh' face almost. Glaringly so. As if they're attempting to telepathic induce you to nod or smile, to somehow acknowledge their visualized malcontent over your not having done so already.

    After I 'spider sense' the stare, I go back to whatever I was engaged in before my 'psycho alert' tingled.

    I always wonder, Isn't hello more simple? It seems to work for me.

    Oh and the other thing is guys will approach me and say, I saw you running the other day. I always say, Oh ok.
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    Apr 12, 2008 8:35 PM GMT
    when a drunk guy at the club asks u to call his phone because he lost it.

    Or when he says "Sooooooo...how come a guy like is single"

    icon_eek.gif i'm single? really? icon_cry.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 12, 2008 8:46 PM GMT
    Caslon said[quote]

    and you replied...





    No reply yet.. but it will be as follows...


    Thanks Kristy for e-mailing me... Yes, I am involved and am not single. I would be happy to chat with
    your brothers associate so long as he understands that friendship will be my focus and priority.
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    Apr 12, 2008 9:04 PM GMT
    At the gym in the steam room a guy in the tier above me rubs his cock and then gives me that look like, "ya wanna". Kind of subtle but I figured it out.

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    Apr 12, 2008 10:53 PM GMT
    It usually takes a restraining order to get my attention.
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    Apr 13, 2008 2:00 AM GMT
    Lets see,
    In the ER with my grandmother, the ER doctor pulled me aside and asked if he can see me some time..

    In a str8 bar watching boxing match, guy walks up and hands me his busines card with a message on the back that he wanted to Fuck me, and to please call his work number.

    Locker room of gym, found note in my underwear with a name and number.

    last but not least stopped me leaving a football game by saying in a low voice so no one else could hear, There is a tight end I need on my team....
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    Apr 13, 2008 4:42 PM GMT
    Football_lover saidLets see,
    In the ER with my grandmother, the ER doctor pulled me aside and asked if he can see me some time..

    In a str8 bar watching boxing match, guy walks up and hands me his busines card with a message on the back that he wanted to Fuck me, and to please call his work number.

    Locker room of gym, found note in my underwear with a name and number.

    last but not least stopped me leaving a football game by saying in a low voice so no one else could hear, There is a tight end I need on my team....

    Geesh, if I had that many guys treating me like just a piece of meat I think I might prefer to be straight. Some may be flattered I guess. I think it's just plain demeaning and offensive. To each his own.