Jun 01, 2011 9:04 PM GMT
I guess I just don't feel validated as a person. I have made no real substantial relationships/friendships in the gay community since coming out.
QUOTE realjockk89they always try to reduce what I'm going through to it being no big deal or just don't listen at allWhat are you going through?
QUOTE realjockk89I have been looking for a relationship for over a year and haven't found any guy that is up to par.What is up to par? Are you looking for Mr. Perfect?
meninlove said It's OK to vent like that (as long as it's not in 50 topics, lol!)
You pretty well described my life before Bill and that was over 22 years ago, so really nothing much has changed and many many hundreds of thousands have walked a mile in your shoes.
I say enjoy the short affairs and lear
Fit4FitnDenver saidI would also suggest going to www.meetup.com to find some groups going on in the area.
(Instead you can meet people who are in the same position you are: lonely, frustrated and trying to reach out to other people.)
i dont agree with you man ...
he has to find gays who help him to cheer up , but meeting gays who are in the same position would make it worse ,,,
its so easy .., he should leave those gays and try to find real pple ..