The Oldest / Youngest guy you've dated

  • TallguyNLA

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    Jun 02, 2011 6:35 AM GMT
    So be honest...
    what was the largest age differecne between the guy you were or are dating?
    How long did it last and what really drew you to him?
    Do you see it lasting or was it something YOU KNOW you should have avoided?
  • TallguyNLA

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    Jun 02, 2011 6:38 AM GMT
    MaxLukacs saidI once slept with a 63 year old man. It was only sex. We met at a health convention in Anaheim, CA.


    WOW!!!!! so he was three times your age???
    What drew you to him? you're so young, man?
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    Jun 02, 2011 6:44 AM GMT
    The youngest was 1 year younger than me and the oldest was one year older.
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    Jun 02, 2011 6:48 AM GMT
    49 the oldest, 41 the youngest icon_lol.gif
  • TallguyNLA

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    Jun 02, 2011 6:57 AM GMT
    MaxLukacs said
    TallguyNLA said
    MaxLukacs saidI once slept with a 63 year old man. It was only sex. We met at a health convention in Anaheim, CA.


    WOW!!!!! so he was three times your age???
    What drew you to him? you're so young, man?


    I don't like men my age. I refuse to date anyone under 35. That's just how I am. He wasn't like a Jack Lalanne or anything, but he was definitely attractive. We had fun for one night. It was a 3 day convention... we got to know each other but the last night we did sleep together.

    The only thing that creeped me out was when he told me his kids were all older than me.

    EXACTLY what I was getting at...
    I cant imagine his KIDS being older than you....
    I dont judge but again... WOW.....
  • TallguyNLA

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    Jun 02, 2011 6:59 AM GMT
    Buckyou said49 the oldest, 41 the youngest icon_lol.gif



    You're really young too!
    for some reason I thought Id see allot more responses from older guy dating youger....
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    Jun 02, 2011 7:37 AM GMT
    MaxLukacs saidI once slept with a 63 year old man. It was only sex. We met at a health convention in Anaheim, CA.


    youngest?

    Buckyou said49 the oldest, 41 the youngest icon_lol.gif


    You have a thing for older dudes. I respect that.
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    Jun 02, 2011 7:38 AM GMT
    TallguyNLA said for some reason I thought Id see allot more responses from older guy dating youger....


    It's past their bed time. They are old remember?
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    Jun 02, 2011 7:39 AM GMT
    I have dated oldest was mid 40s. Youngest was 22.
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    Jun 02, 2011 7:54 AM GMT
    MaxLukacs saidI once slept with a 63 year old man. It was only sex. We met at a health convention in Anaheim, CA.


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    ....I'm just kidding.
  • Little_Spoon

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    Jun 02, 2011 11:09 AM GMT
    Oldest I've been with has been 46. He looked late 20s... I was totally surprised.
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    Jun 02, 2011 11:17 AM GMT
    50 is the oldest..19 the youngest (and my first guy just over a year ago)
  • laxdude25

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    Jun 02, 2011 11:19 AM GMT
    I am in my early fifties. For the past year, I've been hanging out with a 21 year old guy, mutual interest in playing soccer. I resisted going further, but he pressed pretty hard. I am his first guy, he has no daddy issues, and it's going great no drama. He thinks I am super hot, I think the same of him, we have a great time in and out of bed. But that is definitely the widest age gap I've experienced.

    Edit: I forgot to include the widest spread for me going the other direction. I was 22, racing sailboats out of Annapolis. I was staying at a cheap cheap motel, with a bunch of guys. At the BBQ on Saturday night, I met another guy who was racing, totally sexy, older guy, married. Somehow it was instant attraction, we went back to my motel room and I got fucked for the second time in my life. Turned out he was 45+, but super hard body, great kisser, and an awesome top.

    So my range is 23+ years older, and 23 years younger. And everywhere in between. icon_smile.gif
  • RD11

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    Jun 02, 2011 4:04 PM GMT
    45 the oldest, 24 the youngest
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    Jun 02, 2011 4:09 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidNever dated. Hooked up with a professor in his 60's once and the youngest was 22 I think.


    The things we would do for an A+....was the sex at least good?


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    Jun 02, 2011 4:15 PM GMT
    laxdude25 saidI am in my early fifties. For the past year, I've been hanging out with a 21 year old guy, mutual interest in playing soccer. I resisted going further, but he pressed pretty hard. I am his first guy, he has no daddy issues, and it's going great no drama. He thinks I am super hot, I think the same of him, we have a great time in and out of bed. But that is definitely the widest age gap I've experienced.


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    I like that story. What about your oldest?
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    Jun 02, 2011 4:18 PM GMT
    83 years old.
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    Jun 02, 2011 4:21 PM GMT
    Dated a 25 yr old, 27 yr old and a 41 yr old. Hmmmm, guess I shy away from my own age or older
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    Jun 02, 2011 4:24 PM GMT
    I've never dated anyone younger but I have dated a guy (my first bf) who was 21 years older than me.

    It lasted about 2.5-3 years and early on I did see it lasting, and although it was ultimately one of the reasons for the break-up, it wasn't so much that we didn't have anything in common or anything, it's just that I was still so young and I felt I needed to be on my own to know myself as an adult - since we got together when I was 18.
  • madhatter131

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    Jun 02, 2011 4:26 PM GMT
    ...oldest was like 29 when I was 20. ...but that was only 2 dates.

    ...youngest was 18 when I was 21. ....that was for a year.

    ...most people are within + / - 2 years of my own age.

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    Jun 02, 2011 4:28 PM GMT
    eb925guy saidDated a 25 yr old, 27 yr old and a 41 yr old. Hmmmm, guess I shy away from my own age or older


    Good thing too. You don't look a year over 42
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    Jun 02, 2011 4:39 PM GMT
    theantijock saidWhen I was in my late teens or early 20s during a college break I lived for a week with a much older artist here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Key_West_Heritage_House_Museum_and_Robert_Frost_Cottage .

    I'm going to guess he was in his early 60s. Extremely talented. Way interesting. I was just fascinated by him.

    Then in my 40s I kept attracting guys in their early 20s. It was weird. Normally I would just politely decline but I did have fun with one of them. Nice guy.

    So I guess my range was two generations up and one generation down. I do prefer my own generation, however.


    This can have so many meanings, including their legs being very flexible. But I am gonna assume you meant in his field of professional as an artist.
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    Jun 02, 2011 4:40 PM GMT
    I was 15 and I met this guy on CL. He said he was 25, I believed him. Weeks later I saw another ad by him, turns out he was really 35. I regret ever hooking up with him. I'm still ashamed of it today.
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    Jun 02, 2011 4:48 PM GMT
    I was 18. He was a kick ass guy I met through a mutual socialite friend. Hot-talian, killer fit body and smile, auto mechanic (!!!), co-owned a garage with his father (!!!) Went out to eat in the gayborhood in Chicago. We also had a debate about which Metallica album was the highlight of their career and ended up making out like crazy in the cold. After the first date, we were talking on the phone about taking it further, because it seemed like we were two peas in a pod. When i finally came out and asked him his age, found out he was 25 and I freaked out because I just assumed he was 19-21, and couldn't deal with the idea of going out with an older guy.

    NOW I KICK MYSELF EVERY TIME I REMEMBER. WHY DID THAT HAVE TO MATTER TO ME?! I AM SUCH A FUCK UP!
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:00 PM GMT
    I will be 45 in a few weeks and my current boyfriend is 27. Mentally and physically we are totally in-sync. We're not having any age issues.