Roommate Fucks All of My Friends

  • iHavok

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    Jun 02, 2011 3:02 PM GMT
    Can't afford to move at the moment (but trust me i'm saving up for it!).

    Is there any polite way to say I'm not going to bring my friends over anymore, because I'm grossed out by your slutty behavior, and don't want to have to deal with the aftermath anymore?



    Is it even a realistic wish in a small town?
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    Jun 02, 2011 3:13 PM GMT
    Maybe just tell him that you're tired of the awkward aftermath every time he sleeps with your friends? It's not specifically mean saying that, as long as you explain the situation well.

    Also maybe tell your friends to not sleep with your roommate?
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    Jun 02, 2011 3:13 PM GMT
    It takes two (or more) people to consent to sex. Just sayin. icon_wink.gif
  • iHavok

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    Jun 02, 2011 3:18 PM GMT
    Bale02 saidMaybe just tell him that you're tired of the awkward aftermath every time he sleeps with your friends? It's not specifically mean saying that, as long as you explain the situation well.

    Also maybe tell your friends to not sleep with your roommate?


    I feel telling my friends not to hook up with him is overstepping my boundaries as a friend.

    Maybe I should just tell them when he doesn't call, I dont want to hear it.

    Just irritated that I'm forced into this situation...have friends over, and let him treat them like a smorgasbord, or not have friends over to my house ever.
  • Timbales

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    Jun 02, 2011 3:23 PM GMT
    iHavok said
    Bale02 saidMaybe just tell him that you're tired of the awkward aftermath every time he sleeps with your friends? It's not specifically mean saying that, as long as you explain the situation well.

    Also maybe tell your friends to not sleep with your roommate?


    I feel telling my friends not to hook up with him is overstepping my boundaries as a friend.

    Maybe I should just tell them when he doesn't call, I dont want to hear it.

    Just irritated that I'm forced into this situation...have friends over, and let him treat them like a smorgasbord, or not have friends over to my house ever.


    That's the thing right there. I'd say "Hey, you're a big boy and jumped into bed with him. It wasn't my business then and it's not my business now."

  • iHavok

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    Jun 02, 2011 3:31 PM GMT
    Just wish I could figure out how to preserve the friendship after he's done.
  • Timbales

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    Jun 02, 2011 3:38 PM GMT
    iHavok saidJust wish I could figure out how to preserve the friendship after he's done.


    Maybe warn them before they come to your house that he will try to get them in bed and then they will never hear from him again?
  • Timbales

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    Jun 02, 2011 3:40 PM GMT
    Or, when your roommate comes around when you have company, say "Look, I'm not your pimp. Go find your own friends to fuck and leave us alone." or "Hey, Bob, John and Gary have all asked me why you never called them after you fucked them last week."
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    Jun 02, 2011 3:46 PM GMT
    Now that I notice...out of curiosity...is that him sucking your dick in your main pic? icon_lol.gif
  • iHavok

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    Jun 02, 2011 3:49 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidNow that I notice...out of curiosity...is that him sucking your dick in your main pic? icon_lol.gif


    Yes that is him, And No, he's not sucking my dick.
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    Jun 02, 2011 4:14 PM GMT
    iHavok said
    paulflexes saidNow that I notice...out of curiosity...is that him sucking your dick in your main pic? icon_lol.gif


    Yes that is him, And No, he's not sucking my dick.


    He does look like a slut though icon_razz.gif

    I think you should just say to your roommate that it puts you in an awkward and uncomfortable situation with your friends when he sleeps with them, and to maybe consider casting his net elsewhere.
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    Jun 02, 2011 4:53 PM GMT
    I switch my vote now:

    Just tell your friends that if they want to sleep with your roommate they can, but he tends to just do 1-night stands/never call/fuck people over/whatever.... and that outcome has nothing to do with you.
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:42 PM GMT
    Ill room with ya :-).

    Lucky roommate if you ask me. Plus, ask your friends if they mind.

    Now if it starts to become an issue, such as your friends not coming over anymore, then say something, other than that let the games begin!
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    Jun 02, 2011 6:00 PM GMT
    iHavok saidCan't afford to move at the moment (but trust me i'm saving up for it!).

    Is there any polite way to say I'm not going to bring my friends over anymore, because I'm grossed out by your slutty behavior, and don't want to have to deal with the aftermath anymore?



    Is it even a realistic wish in a small town?


    Your friends must be pretty slutty too, unless your roommate raped them. Sex goes TWO ways. Maybe get new and less slutty friends? LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL.
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    Jun 02, 2011 6:13 PM GMT
    My main question is, how many new friends could you possibly be bringing home, especially if you say you live in a small town. Wouldn't he eventually just run out of new meat, and wouldn't all your friends know his reputation ahead of time? I assume if you're all friends, it's not just you they've told about the hookups.

    My other question is... Are these friends that you bring over new people you've met, in whom you're interested, and he is just always cockblocking you? Because if that is the case, then it is definitely not cool, and you should just tell him to back the hell off.
  • iHavok

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    Jun 02, 2011 6:28 PM GMT
    19c79 saidMy main question is, how many new friends could you possibly be bringing home, especially if you say you live in a small town. Wouldn't he eventually just run out of new meat, and wouldn't all your friends know his reputation ahead of time? I assume if you're all friends, it's not just you they've told about the hookups.

    My other question is... Are these friends that you bring over new people you've met, in whom you're interested, and he is just always cockblocking you? Because if that is the case, then it is definitely not cool, and you should just tell him to back the hell off.


    He has cockblocked me on several occasions, and used the "I didn't know you were interested" excuse...but I'm specifically referring to people I have no interest in having sex with.

    It's a college town, and while it's small, there seems to always be someone new coming out, or wanting to switch things up and meet new people.
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    Jun 02, 2011 6:32 PM GMT
    iHavok saidHe has cockblocked me on several occasions, and used the "I didn't know you were interested" excuse...but I'm specifically referring to people I have no interest in having sex with.

    It's a college town, and while it's small, there seems to always be someone new coming out, or wanting to switch things up and meet new people.
    Ah, got it. I call bullshit on the "I didn't know" excuse, but then again, I'm sure you already know that. I'd just tell him to back off, and not worry too much about politeness. He looks like a big boy. I'm sure he can handle bluntness.
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    Jun 03, 2011 12:43 AM GMT
    Do you have a friend who has some kind of flesh eating bacteria?

    Bring them home.

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  • iHavok

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    Jun 03, 2011 5:13 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidDo you have a friend who has some kind of flesh eating bacteria?

    Bring them home.

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    In my daydreams I'm mean and let him go after this dude who was visiting last week from an hour and a half north...dude is notorious for having HPV I guess.
    Being a good guy just isn't much fun.
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    Jun 03, 2011 7:42 AM GMT
    Hey...I think you're taking way too much responsibility for your roomies behavior. If you have guys over for the evening and one ends up sleeping with your roommate, you have NO responsibility in that. I was kinda wondering why your not saying good morning to one of them. I don't know you or your friends well enough to make a better answer.