what a pity SO man bottom virgins have the suffer the fate of an inept/impatient/inexperienced top!
my bf and I both considered ourselves "tops" when we first got together.
we both wanted the realationship to work and last a long time; so we went about the process of learning how to bttm for the other.
he was just the "teacher" i needed!!
slow, patient, kind, always attentive to my needs, facial expessions and conditions, he gradually "de-virginized" me over a couple of hot & horny sessions.
we used LOTS of high quality, super slippery silicon lube, first his index finger, then 2 fingers, then 3 fingers, LOTS of finger masturbation, caressing, kissing, long, wet, juicy rimming sessions, and some high quality poppers to relax both of us about 10 seconds before his first entry.
i'm not sure which one of us was the more amazed the first time he slid his condom covered penis all the way into my lubed up rectum! in he was, with no pain, no blood, no screaming, no drama.
after pausing for a bit for us both to get to used to the idea that he was actually all the way in, he started a slow, rocking in and out routine. by the time he jizzed, we were both doing our best imitation of a porno movie.
later on that week, i did my best to i duplicate his efforts and deflowered him; with the same pain/blood/drama free results.