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  • jasons83

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    Jun 02, 2011 5:04 PM GMT
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:13 PM GMT
    It will get better the more you practice - good to hear you had a good first experience overall though.
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    Jun 10, 2011 5:49 AM GMT
    Google "Anal Prolapse"icon_idea.gif
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    Jun 10, 2011 6:15 AM GMT
    djohn767 saidGoogle "Anal Prolapse"icon_idea.gif


    Ok, I'm pitching from here on out.
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    Jun 10, 2011 7:42 AM GMT
    djohn767 saidGoogle "Anal Prolapse"icon_idea.gif


    Ewwww. WTF dude. I Googled, got curious and clicked on images. Never gonna have sex ever again!
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    Jun 10, 2011 8:09 AM GMT
    Did your superHOT personal trainer wear a condom?
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    Jun 10, 2011 8:24 AM GMT
    djohn767 saidGoogle "Anal Prolapse"icon_idea.gif

    Hahahaha. Pink Sock. <3


    Why don't people try practicing before they have sex their first time? It should be enjoyable!
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    Jun 10, 2011 3:54 PM GMT
    Mate, you gotta slow down for both your enjoyment and for your own health. Bleeding from your arse isn't fun and can last for days not to mention could scar you and make you even harder to fuck. And that would be a disservice to the community! Won't somebody think of the consensual legal aged adults?! Don't you eat carrots or cucumbers?

    I know a dude that likes fisting and got a prolapsed hole from it and he says it's not great especially with all the surgery he's gone through to fix it and it doesn't take much to get one.
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    Jun 10, 2011 5:06 PM GMT
    Oh shoot I forgot all about my big muscle account!
  • Koaa2

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    Jun 10, 2011 7:52 PM GMT
    It gets better with practice and figuring our what works best for you and your partner. Enjoy
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    Jun 10, 2011 9:48 PM GMT
    jim_e saidI know a dude that likes fisting...


    Something I will never understand.
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    Jun 10, 2011 10:37 PM GMT
    See, that's why I don't do anal. Nothing that painful can be natural.
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    Jun 11, 2011 12:10 AM GMT
    Patience and lots of lube - your key to success here! First time I bottomed, I made the guy stop. It got better with my next 'session' and now I love it all - giving and receiving. You just have to relax - exhale while he's going in - and did I say 'remember the lube?'
  • somedude22

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    Jun 11, 2011 12:15 AM GMT
    some people say this stuff is a bad idea cause it can cause u to hurt yourself without knowing...


    But I use this numbing cream that makes my ass hole relax and numb so I only feel the pure pleasure. Only lasts about 15 minutes though before you need more.

    I also have significantly less pain afterwords when I use it (next day / no bleeding). I think pain makes you tense the muscle up and cause tearing. When you dont have pain its easier to just let it relax and enjoy it.

    But I dont have sex often enough to "get used to it:

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    Jun 11, 2011 1:19 AM GMT
    A bottom in pain can also be a sign of an impatient top.

    Virgins need to be broken in slow and easy. It might take several sessions before complete insertion and full-on fucking can happen.

    Patience and going slowly are the key. That deep nasty screw will be there soon enough. No need to hurry.
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    Jun 11, 2011 2:16 AM GMT
    yeah, you're not supposed to just put it in like that and if you're resisting than there's almost no point. finger first, then 2 fingers, then a guy. imo.
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    Jun 11, 2011 2:34 AM GMT
    Not all bottoms enjoy things in their butts. Some guys seem to get more pleasure out of anal than others, even tops.

    But really, you should be playing with your hole to get to know the "ins and outs" of how it works, how different things feel, the speed you respond to, the type and amount of lube you need, what angled make you feel pleasure/pain. Doing this yourself will make your next encounter with someone else more pleasurable for both, and you'll have a better chance at him calling you to do it again.

    I would caution somedude22's post because BLEEDING THE NEXT DAY IS A BAD SIGN. Numbing lubes aren't necessarily terrible, but it's people who think that bleeding the next day being fine that should not be using numbing lubes. Keep in mind they numb the penis but that's only if you're not using a condom, and that would never happen, right? There are other lubes that are supposed to relax the muscles, leading to less pain without any numbing, which sounds like it could help you.
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    Jun 11, 2011 3:06 AM GMT
    Oh, there's blood involved??? Hell no. Fuck that shit (no pun intended). I won't do anal for a million dollars.
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    Jun 11, 2011 3:09 AM GMT
    we should start a "how to avoid anal prolapse" topic, that shit looked fuckin scary UGH icon_cry.gif
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    Jun 11, 2011 11:19 AM GMT
    Chattman91 saidOh, there's blood involved??? Hell no. Fuck that shit (no pun intended). I won't do anal for a million dollars.


    What about $1,000,001?
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    Jun 11, 2011 2:32 PM GMT
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    Chattman91 saidOh, there's blood involved??? Hell no. Fuck that shit (no pun intended). I won't do anal for a million dollars.


    What about $1,000,001?


    Now, we're talking business.
  • rnch

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    Jun 11, 2011 3:18 PM GMT
    what a pity SO man bottom virgins have the suffer the fate of an inept/impatient/inexperienced top!

    my bf and I both considered ourselves "tops" when we first got together.

    we both wanted the realationship to work and last a long time; so we went about the process of learning how to bttm for the other.

    he was just the "teacher" i needed!!

    slow, patient, kind, always attentive to my needs, facial expessions and conditions, he gradually "de-virginized" me over a couple of hot & horny sessions.

    we used LOTS of high quality, super slippery silicon lube, first his index finger, then 2 fingers, then 3 fingers, LOTS of finger masturbation, caressing, kissing, long, wet, juicy rimming sessions, and some high quality poppers to relax both of us about 10 seconds before his first entry.

    i'm not sure which one of us was the more amazed the first time he slid his condom covered penis all the way into my lubed up rectum! in he was, with no pain, no blood, no screaming, no drama.

    after pausing for a bit for us both to get to used to the idea that he was actually all the way in, he started a slow, rocking in and out routine. by the time he jizzed, we were both doing our best imitation of a porno movie.

    later on that week, i did my best to i duplicate his efforts and deflowered him; with the same pain/blood/drama free results.

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    Jun 12, 2011 7:24 AM GMT
    *sigh*

    no pics at all? Now we have to fantasize about black identical cartoon people having sex hmmm