Going from bottom to top?

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    Jun 02, 2011 5:24 PM GMT
    Hey all y'all.

    So most of my life I have identified as a bottom (even though I barely have had anal sex) however recently Im getting the "urge" to throw guys smaller than me down on the bed and plow til Im content. Im wondering if anyone else has gone from being one position to the other? Or if it just took time for you to figure it out.
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:28 PM GMT
    It goes in cycles. I'm a vers guy so I thought it was just for us vers guys.

    You're a bottom? That's funny. Didn't strike me as one.
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:29 PM GMT
    i have always been a top so i can't relate to your specific situation of moving from one preference into another... BUT what i can say is that it is your choice... ie. there is no one saying to you ''hold it Chainers.. you haven't gone through the conversion process yet.''

    ie. there is no rule book for switching roles... you do what you feel like doing.

    so if you want to top... top. if you bottomed yesterday and you say 'you know what... i want to top tomorrow' then do exactly that.

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    Jun 02, 2011 5:29 PM GMT
    waimea saidIt goes in cycles. I'm a vers guy so I thought it was just for us vers guys.

    You're a bottom? That's funny. Didn't strike me as one.


    To be honest, I dont know anymore. I always though I was a bottom because I liked guys bigger than me, but like I said, I was fooling around with this guy the other day, and, damn, I just wanted to fuck him.

    Maybe Im a top?

    Or maybe I just need to have more sex lol.
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:31 PM GMT
    _Mohammed_ saidi have always been a top so i can't relate to your specific situation of moving from one preference into another... BUT what i can say is that it is your choice... ie. there is no one saying to you ''hold it Chainers.. you haven't gone through the conversion process yet.''

    ie. there is no rule book for switching roles... you do what you feel like doing.

    so if you want to top... top. if you bottomed yesterday and you say 'you know what... i want to top tomorrow' then do exactly that.



    Yea thats the problem is Ive always though I was a bottom, but Ive been bottoming for a year now and havent really enjoyed it too much, hence why Im thinking of topping, because Im going wild with all these smaller guys around me.

    Not that I dont mind topping someone bigger than me, but it can get a little clunky.
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:34 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    waimea saidIt goes in cycles. I'm a vers guy so I thought it was just for us vers guys.

    You're a bottom? That's funny. Didn't strike me as one.


    To be honest, I dont know anymore. I always though I was a bottom because I liked guys bigger than me, but like I said, I was fooling around with this guy the other day, and, damn, I just wanted to fuck him.

    Maybe Im a top?

    Or maybe I just need to have more sex lol.


    wait...wait..wait...since when did liking guys bigger than you meant you are a bottom... never.

    if you like taking dick up your ass...you are a bottom.

    so chainers... just because you like bigger guys doesn't mean you are a bottom... it just means you like bigger men.
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:37 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    _Mohammed_ saidi have always been a top so i can't relate to your specific situation of moving from one preference into another... BUT what i can say is that it is your choice... ie. there is no one saying to you ''hold it Chainers.. you haven't gone through the conversion process yet.''

    ie. there is no rule book for switching roles... you do what you feel like doing.

    so if you want to top... top. if you bottomed yesterday and you say 'you know what... i want to top tomorrow' then do exactly that.



    Yea thats the problem is Ive always though I was a bottom, but Ive been bottoming for a year now and havent really enjoyed it too much, hence why Im thinking of topping, because Im going wild with all these smaller guys

    Not that I dont mind topping someone bigger than me, but it can get a little clunky.


    Ok so you don't like bottoming then don't bottom and find yourself a bigger man that likes to bottom.
    let me find you one. icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:43 PM GMT
    _Mohammed_ said
    Chainers said
    _Mohammed_ saidi have always been a top so i can't relate to your specific situation of moving from one preference into another... BUT what i can say is that it is your choice... ie. there is no one saying to you ''hold it Chainers.. you haven't gone through the conversion process yet.''

    ie. there is no rule book for switching roles... you do what you feel like doing.

    so if you want to top... top. if you bottomed yesterday and you say 'you know what... i want to top tomorrow' then do exactly that.



    Yea thats the problem is Ive always though I was a bottom, but Ive been bottoming for a year now and havent really enjoyed it too much, hence why Im thinking of topping, because Im going wild with all these smaller guys

    Not that I dont mind topping someone bigger than me, but it can get a little clunky.


    Ok so you don't like bottoming then don't bottom and find yourself a bigger man that likes to bottom.
    let me find you one. icon_razz.gif


    Rofl thanks man. I know bigger doesnt mean that I have to bottom, but man I hate being out of control, it just doesnt fit my style.
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:46 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    waimea saidIt goes in cycles. I'm a vers guy so I thought it was just for us vers guys.

    You're a bottom? That's funny. Didn't strike me as one.


    To be honest, I dont know anymore. I always though I was a bottom because I liked guys bigger than me, but like I said, I was fooling around with this guy the other day, and, damn, I just wanted to fuck him.

    Maybe Im a top?

    Or maybe I just need to have more sex lol.


    Maybe you're vers. I am kinda like you. With guys bigger than me or very masculine guys I wanna bottom. With guys on the more petite, cute, or with awesome ass, I wanna screw them. But that depends on my mood and the days too. I go without urge to bottom for weeks though, whereas I am almost always in mood to top, so that's why I identify myself more of a top-vers.
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    Jun 02, 2011 5:54 PM GMT
    waimea said
    Chainers said
    waimea saidIt goes in cycles. I'm a vers guy so I thought it was just for us vers guys.

    You're a bottom? That's funny. Didn't strike me as one.


    To be honest, I dont know anymore. I always though I was a bottom because I liked guys bigger than me, but like I said, I was fooling around with this guy the other day, and, damn, I just wanted to fuck him.

    Maybe Im a top?

    Or maybe I just need to have more sex lol.


    Maybe you're vers. I am kinda like you. With guys bigger than me or very masculine guys I wanna bottom. With guys on the more petite, cute, or with awesome ass, I wanna screw them. But that depends on my mood and the days too. I go without urge to bottom for weeks though, whereas I am almost always in mood to top, so that's why I identify myself more of a top-vers.


    Well thats the thing I like guys bigger than me but Im not liking to bottom, maybe I just need to fuck the shit out of everything in sight.
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    Jun 02, 2011 6:48 PM GMT
    Chainers said Im wondering if anyone else has gone from being one position to the other?


    Not me, but yes, I know of it happening.
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    Jun 02, 2011 6:59 PM GMT
    Just identify as verse, it's more universal and it makes sex more interesting.

    'cause no matter what you do, you're satisfied by the end of it.


    Plus... looking at some of the older threads, it's a feeling that just happens. Some tops get the feeling to want to get fucked, and some bottoms become so sexually charged they want to do the fucking. It's natural, yo.
  • dalek19

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    Jun 03, 2011 4:53 PM GMT
    used to be a solid top but thank god my ex broke me in and now im 100% vers and i love it! get the best of both worlds! lol
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    Jun 04, 2011 3:27 PM GMT
    Chainers saidHey all y'all.

    So most of my life I have identified as a bottom (even though I barely have had anal sex) however recently Im getting the "urge" to throw guys smaller than me down on the bed and plow til Im content. Im wondering if anyone else has gone from being one position to the other? Or if it just took time for you to figure it out.


    Why not be bottom/vers? or top/vers? Nothing says you need to be a 'total' bottom (or whatever the fuck that means). I bottom more than top and generally prefer to top on the flip. Of course that means getting past one and done but consider doing both.

    As to not having enjoyed it - the first few times I bottomed I really didnt like it at all.. and stopped for many years. Then I met a couple g uys who were able to do things 'right' for me. That doesn't mean that every time I get my ass tagged its great, just that it can depend a lot on who is doing the topping.
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    Jun 04, 2011 4:37 PM GMT
    It's okay to be versatile.
    In fact, it nearly doubles your options.
  • buckled

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    Apr 01, 2012 3:21 PM GMT
    Didn't want to start a new thread...

    After last night... I am DEFINITELY a top... well I guess I'll say top verse, because I will probably bottom again. But O M G I never knew how good topping could be. I've tried it in the past.. and I guess I just had bad bottoms because seriously mind was blown.

    Anyways, guess I made the transition... no intention on bottoming anytime soon (not eliminating it.. I still enjoy that) but I just had the best sex of my life.. as a top. Mind Blown.
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    Apr 01, 2012 4:14 PM GMT
    Saw thread title, saw original poster, thought it was an April Fool's joke.

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  • spider

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    Aug 02, 2012 11:41 PM GMT
    Ive been out and sexually active for 40 years and though started as a bottom quickly learnt that giving. A good fucking is just as good as recieving one. Why do we have to be labled top or bottom? Just do what feels right at the time and change ends at half time to use a sporting metipher