Jun 03, 2011 9:58 AM GMT
I was watching "The Young Victoria" and i was feeling lonely bcuz i missed that feeling of love when i was with my ex... but that aside when they got to the part where Victoria felt that Albert should not take on half her duties, i got to thinking about one reason my ex gave me for his frustration.
While growing up i was raised a gentleman (even though i turned out a lady lol). I was taught that as a MAN, i must always be a caballero and pay for myself and my date. If the girl (my date) ever payed i would be shamed and be a sad excuse for a man... It was ingrained in my way of being.... its just how i am. Now i would pay for lunch, dinner, and some of his debts (he bought stuff online and i payed it for him)
He said he hated it and wanted to pay for thing(even though he was unemployed he would have to ask his parents for the money and i hated that!) He told me i made him feel useless and like i thought he could not hold his own. But to me it made my world crumble.....
What is your guy's take on this issue? am i dead wrong? is chivalry dead? i am a lady and chivalry is what i grew up with.
While growing up i was raised a gentleman (even though i turned out a lady lol). I was taught that as a MAN, i must always be a caballero and pay for myself and my date. If the girl (my date) ever payed i would be shamed and be a sad excuse for a man... It was ingrained in my way of being.... its just how i am. Now i would pay for lunch, dinner, and some of his debts (he bought stuff online and i payed it for him)
He said he hated it and wanted to pay for thing(even though he was unemployed he would have to ask his parents for the money and i hated that!) He told me i made him feel useless and like i thought he could not hold his own. But to me it made my world crumble.....
What is your guy's take on this issue? am i dead wrong? is chivalry dead? i am a lady and chivalry is what i grew up with.