Rejected for Friendship :(

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    Jun 04, 2011 5:37 PM GMT
    I recently got blocked by a person(on this site) just because i bugged him to befriend me icon_sad.gificon_sad.gif
    Will he able to view my forum posts/comments?
    Also, will he able to view MY comments for HIS posts?
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    Jun 04, 2011 5:56 PM GMT
    What's his user name? Let's kick him out of here.
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    Jun 04, 2011 6:56 PM GMT
    BTW.. i didn't bug him..he might have felt that way. I asked him sincerely with good intent
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    Jun 04, 2011 7:14 PM GMT
    I don't feel like blocking him. I never felt. I never will.
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    Jun 04, 2011 7:23 PM GMT
    It seems to me, whatever someones reason for blocking you, the classy thing is just to get over it and move on. Maybe it was a miscommunication, maybe he's not into you, maybe (insert random reason here).

    You can't control that, but you can control your reaction. Just be classy and move on.
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    Jun 04, 2011 7:44 PM GMT
    If he blocks you, he cannot see your posts unless someone he hasn't blocked quotes you.

    But if the guy was a compatible friend for you, he wouldn't have blocked you. It is best to move on. I understand the sting you're probably feeling. Let it ride. Just don't dwell on it.
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    Jun 04, 2011 8:36 PM GMT
    Shashank_Rosberg said
    Will he able to view my forum posts/comments?
    Also, will he able to view MY comments for HIS posts?


    I think if he blocks you then he can't see your posts. Also if you email him, it will not show up in his box, so he will never know.

    Maybe someday he will change his mind and want some Shashank Redemption and unblock you.
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    Jun 04, 2011 11:41 PM GMT
    Iceblink said
    Shashank_Rosberg said
    Will he able to view my forum posts/comments?
    Also, will he able to view MY comments for HIS posts?


    I think if he blocks you then he can't see your posts. Also if you email him, it will not show up in his box, so he will never know.

    Maybe someday he will change his mind and want some Shashank Redemption and unblock you.

    Aren't we talking about two different blocks. If he forum blocks you, he won't see your forum messages unless someone else quotes you. If he site blocks you, he won't see your email messages. Is this correct?
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    Jun 04, 2011 11:50 PM GMT
    Just move on. One-way friendships are a waste of time anyway.
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    Jun 05, 2011 4:42 AM GMT
    No point on taking it personally. I've been blocked by people I've never spoken too which is odd.

    I've been hated by people of far better calibre.icon_twisted.gif
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    Jun 05, 2011 5:18 AM GMT
    socalfitness said
    Iceblink said
    Shashank_Rosberg said
    Will he able to view my forum posts/comments?
    Also, will he able to view MY comments for HIS posts?


    I think if he blocks you then he can't see your posts. Also if you email him, it will not show up in his box, so he will never know.

    Maybe someday he will change his mind and want some Shashank Redemption and unblock you.

    Aren't we talking about two different blocks. If he forum blocks you, he won't see your forum messages unless someone else quotes you. If he site blocks you, he won't see your email messages. Is this correct?



    Ok...
    So, If he site blocks me, he wouldn't be able to view my mails in his inbox. But will he able to view my forum messages??
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    Jun 05, 2011 5:54 AM GMT
    Vancouverite2004 saidJust move on. One-way friendships are a waste of time anyway.



    Good advice to consider Shashank.

    -Doug
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    Jun 05, 2011 3:45 PM GMT
    if you block someone they can still view your profile?
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    Jun 05, 2011 4:17 PM GMT
    running11 saidif you block someone they can still view your profile?

    Yes. And your posts. They just cannot contact you via email, IM, chat.
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    Jun 05, 2011 4:22 PM GMT
    GAMRican said
    running11 saidif you block someone they can still view your profile?

    Yes. And your posts. They just cannot contact you via email, IM, chat.


    oh that's weird... i figured it would block them from viewing your profile. so there's no way of blocking someone from viewing your profile lol
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    Jun 05, 2011 5:03 PM GMT
    All this block me, block you, can't read you, can't touch me crap is ridiculous. So the guy blocked you. Big whoop. It's not the end of the world. There are 200 more guys you haven't met yet!

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    Jun 05, 2011 5:05 PM GMT
    Wait, guys, how do you know if you are being blocked by someone on this website? I don't think you know, right?

    edit: duh I didn't see that convo between running11 and GAMRican till now. Makes sense.



    iLikeDC saidWhat's his user name? Let's kick him out of here.


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    shortguybeau saidIt seems to me, whatever someones reason for blocking you, the classy thing is just to get over it and move on. Maybe it was a miscommunication, maybe he's not into you, maybe (insert random reason here).

    You can't control that, but you can control your reaction. Just be classy and move on.


    Yeah this is what I would do too.

    socalfitness said
    Iceblink said
    Shashank_Rosberg said
    Will he able to view my forum posts/comments?
    Also, will he able to view MY comments for HIS posts?


    I think if he blocks you then he can't see your posts. Also if you email him, it will not show up in his box, so he will never know.

    Maybe someday he will change his mind and want some Shashank Redemption and unblock you.

    Aren't we talking about two different blocks. If he forum blocks you, he won't see your forum messages unless someone else quotes you. If he site blocks you, he won't see your email messages. Is this correct?


    I think this is the case.
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    Jun 05, 2011 5:16 PM GMT
    cityaznguy saidWait, guys, how do you know if you are being blocked by someone on this website? I don't think you know, right?


    Well, he hasn't read my mails.
    I even asked a buddy of mine here to block me and i sent him a mail after he blocked me.Then, I asked whether he received the mail and his answer was NO. icon_sad.gif
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    Jun 05, 2011 5:51 PM GMT
    dude dont even worry about it. to be honest if he blocked you don't even worry about him seeing your posts because he probably doesn't want to read them. on top of that your post should come up as "blocked/deleted member".

    im definitely sorry that happened you you. definitely just try to move on. and the "hint" that i use is, if they dont message me back then they probably just don't care. people are on here for different reasons, so you can't expect to be buddied with everyone.

    really hope this helps and good luck! icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 05, 2011 5:55 PM GMT
    Shashank_Rosberg said
    cityaznguy saidWait, guys, how do you know if you are being blocked by someone on this website? I don't think you know, right?


    Well, he hasn't read my mails.
    I even asked a buddy of mine here to block me and i sent him a mail after he blocked me.Then, I asked whether he received the mail and his answer was NO. icon_sad.gif


    I believe if the messages you sent appeared to be unread, it could mean the other person didn't open them and just delete them. I could be wrong. Anyone what to pitch in on this?
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    Jun 06, 2011 10:21 PM GMT
    Don't worry about it too much. It happens to everyone. I know it happens to me a lot but you just have to move on. Sometimes, guys just aren't interested for whatever reason they have. Just move on and try to find another friend.