What about my profile make men not want to date me just f*ck me?

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    Apr 13, 2008 1:36 AM GMT
    What about my profile make men not want to date me just f*ck me?

    I just wonder if it is something my profiles says or is it the pictures that I posted? Please let me know what it is..Thanks..
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    Apr 13, 2008 1:40 AM GMT
    probably something to do with the fact that the torso piccy doesnt match the rest of the body or the pictures or was taken at an entirely different time?

    Or maybe your heading of enjoy the ride?????
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    Apr 13, 2008 1:44 AM GMT
    From your profile,

    "Looking for: Friends, Dating/Relationship, Hookup, Training Buddies, Online Chat"

    and

    "I need a good tight end who likes it ruff and does not mind me calling the plays...."

    come across to me as if your primary focus is getting laid.
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    Apr 13, 2008 1:46 AM GMT
    In my experience, people who want to form a relationship want the partner to be home.

    This "My work takes me out of town a lot. My schedules are always changing. Hard for me to make a set plan." strikes me as a turn off for a relationship.

    But for a fuck? Oh what the hell. Why not?
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    Apr 13, 2008 1:51 AM GMT
    I kind of agree with Caslon... it if bothers you that men hit on you for sex, rephrase your profile.
    And put on a conservative picture.

    But, from personal experience, you will always get some of others think you are attractive.
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    Apr 13, 2008 7:27 AM GMT
    I think that by using just a torso pic as your main pic you have objectified yourself.

    Perhaps if you used lots more pictures of yourself doing sporty stuff and looking like a real person rather than a sexual object you would get guys who are looking beyond a simple hook-up.
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    Apr 13, 2008 5:30 PM GMT
    Is this some dumb way to ask us to tell you you're hot? Yes, this guy on the pic is hot. If it's you - good for you.
    You know - when a guy wants sex, he shows the sexiest he has. That's what you did so what were you expecting??
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    Apr 13, 2008 7:55 PM GMT
    From this thread you seem to give the impression you enjoy being a viewed as just a sex object.
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    Apr 13, 2008 10:46 PM GMT
    I will sum it up for you here;

    bfg1
    probably something to do with the fact that the torso piccy doesnt match the rest of the body or the pictures or was taken at an entirely different time?




    Paradox"Looking for: Friends, Dating/Relationship, Hookup, Training Buddies, Online Chat"


    Paradox
    "I need a good tight end who likes it ruff and does not mind me calling the plays...."



    HndsmKansanrephrase your profile.
    And put on a conservative picture.



    FulldelightIs this some dumb way to ask us to tell you you're hot?



    Global_citizenFrom this thread you seem to give the impression you enjoy being a viewed as just a sex object.



    Conclusion

    They don't like you: (




    Always here to help!icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 14, 2008 2:19 PM GMT
    fulldelight saidIs this some dumb way to ask us to tell you you're hot?


    I don't think so. He's completely changed his profile in a manner that clearly reflects our feedback on this topic, so I believe he was asking an honest question.
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    Apr 14, 2008 2:36 PM GMT
    paradox said[quote][cite]fulldelight said[/cite]Is this some dumb way to ask us to tell you you're hot?


    I don't think so. He's completely changed his profile in a manner that clearly reflects our feedback on this topic, so I believe he was asking an honest question. [/quote]

    Thank you all for who gave me ideas on what to change. As stated I have changed my profile to changes the issue that were brought to my attention.