Would you ever fight over a guy?!?!?! I think its sooo trashy...

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    Jun 06, 2011 5:49 AM GMT
    Soo I was at the club with my bffs and we were having the time of our lifes and this guy who was from egypt came up to me and ask me to dance withbhim I was like sure y not... Im only havning fun sooo I start grinding on him icon_smile.gif I liked it he liked it lol sooo then after that we talked outside he was my dream guy I wanted to know more about him as soon as I gave him my number this other guy came out of nooo where started screamin at me cussin me out soo I was like he never told me that he was with anyone I though he was single but he wouldnt listin to wat I say so his boyfriend who I didnt know about came in my face like OMG I never smelled a breath soo bad in my life soo thats when things took a complete 360 he put his finger in my eye and I went off I punched him in the face and threw him on the ground it took four of the bodygaurds from the club to get me off of him cause really I was going to kill him cause first of alll u dnt put ur hands on me and secound of all I dnt fight over a guy thats stupid... So today the guy from egypt keeps calling me sending me texts sayin hes,srry he wants to talk to me and he said that they broke up a while ago should I beleave him wat should I doo I dnt want all this drama in my life and I dnt like to fight im too nice for that icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 06, 2011 6:09 AM GMT
    Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!
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    Jun 06, 2011 6:14 AM GMT
    You weren't fighting over a guy you were simply defending yourself. Now, the other dude is a total douche for not telling you he was seeing someone and that the other guy was there at the club with him. He's a player and you need to forget him and move on to someone who would appreciate you. As for the text he sent you, just keep the reply short simple.

    EDIT: No, I won't fight over a guy. I try to resolve things by communication first., when that fails or the other individual put his hands on me, I take it to the next level.
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    Jun 06, 2011 6:15 AM GMT
    Lmao im not that type of person thats why I stay single icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 06, 2011 6:18 AM GMT
    shoombool_tala saidJerry! Jerry! Jerry!

    +1
    And lol.
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    Jun 06, 2011 6:43 AM GMT
    I think this may qualify as the longest run-on sentence in the world.
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    Jun 06, 2011 6:44 AM GMT
    It took 4 security guards?....You're like 5'6, so that must have been some mortal combat shit.
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    Jun 06, 2011 7:23 AM GMT
    staple_ saidIt took 4 security guards?....You're like 5'6, so that must have been some mortal combat shit.

    Either that or they had jewelry all tied up in a knot.
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    Jun 06, 2011 9:02 AM GMT
    staple_ saidIt took 4 security guards?....You're like 5'6, so that must have been some mortal combat shit.


    In most clubs, especially Miami...there will always be 4-5 bouncers looking to hurt someone. I remember once my last night in town, got really drunk...best friend kept talking shit about this guy I was trying to date saying he didn't want me, bla blah blah and I socked him right in the face. Next thing I know, 6 security guards grabbed me and lifted me up the ceiling it seemed and carried me out.

    Sexxxisheikh saidLmao im not that type of person thats why I stay single icon_smile.gif


    I get tired of this crap excuse. Gay people are so afraid to get involved with anyone just because someone else's drama. Newsflash, not everyone is like that.

    Would I ever fight over a guy? Yes and No. I have and I haven't. It sounds like the OTHER guy who came at you wrong was fighting over the guy, not you of course. In that case, I would have left you alone and went after the other guy if we were together.

    I tend not to fight the 3rd party. They actually have little to do with the stuff on hand. BUT, if they talk shit to me like, "oh he's mine now, blah blah blah" then that's grounds to get their teeth knocked out. If I'm with a date, or even a friend and they run off with someone, they deserved to be dumped off in the middle of nowhere...and I've actually had to do that before. I just took off. I tell people, if you going to run off with someone while you with me, make sure they can get you back home. Some people stop hanging out when I let them know that, which is totally fine because I'm not here to babysit your game. To use me as a wingman. Find another sucker who's down with that shit.

    Personally, I try to avoid any fights at clubs though. Getting arrested is no fun and if they do it to you they probably do it to a lot of people. Clubs used to be fun for me and in a way they still are but a lot of times it's just people out who just broke up with their boyfriend, or they are still with them and they just crave attention. And personally I'm just too short-tempered to deal with people's stupidity like that when I'm actually serious about meeting someone real.

    Sexxxisheikh said he said that they broke up a while ago should I beleave him wat should I doo I dnt want all this drama in my life and I dnt like to fight im too nice for that icon_smile.gif


    Leave that alone...they are not over, over. I've been in too many scenarios where the "X" keeps popping up and down the line they break up mysteriously. Because they just taking a break, or he cheating on the dude.
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    Jun 06, 2011 9:45 AM GMT
    If someone were to come out of no where and start yelling at me because I'm talking to their "man",I would have just gotten up and leave. I really don't need no ankle biter braking in my face.

    If you're so scared someone else is going to take your man. Then don't leave his ass wandering around the club alone
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    Jun 06, 2011 1:50 PM GMT
    I love catfights. Better if the fighters are naked and oiled up.
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    Jun 06, 2011 1:59 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidI love catfights. Better if the fighters are naked and oiled up.


    Would you fight for me Dom icon_smile.gif

    Hell I'm still single, so you can just lift me up and go all cave man on me !! LOLicon_lol.gif
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    Jun 06, 2011 2:09 PM GMT
    Nope
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    Jun 06, 2011 2:10 PM GMT
    @Fit4FitnDenve the reason why I like to stay single is because im tired of seeing all these guys who only want one thing and thats sex and im sooo sick and tired of gettin cheated on cause im not sleeping with them... Im still a virgin and im not givin it up till I meet the right person.... Intil then im going to hav fun with my friends enjoyin the single life but I kinda understand where ur coming from icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 06, 2011 2:24 PM GMT
    LOL...so trashy i can't


    I would never get in a fight over a guy- much less someone I just met that night

    You should just text him back and say

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    Jun 06, 2011 3:06 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidI think this may qualify as the longest run-on sentence in the world.


    +1

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    Jun 06, 2011 3:10 PM GMT
    I'd fight, but it would be because I'm like a pitbull now, the dude would be the least of my concerns, the animosity given to me is courteous of Uncle Sam. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jun 06, 2011 3:33 PM GMT
    gurrll don't call him!!!!! u betta than dat sistaa!!! if he gots all that drama wit dat other guy who knows wat otha kinda drama he gots all up in his life...i's just speakin truth and u know it so don't do it...u'll find somebody elseicon_smile.gif
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    Jun 06, 2011 3:45 PM GMT
    Be glad the police weren't called, you could have been hauled away to jail
    for disturbing the piece if nothing else.

    I'd probably want to steer clear of all the drama, but not at the exclusion of the egyptian guy. I'd listen to what he had to say, be fair. If he is in fact single and available, I might want to pursue more, but I'd be on "drama patrol" and make sure you are really being told the truth about the things that matter.
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    Jun 06, 2011 3:47 PM GMT
    There is nothing hotter than two guys having a knife fight over you down by the train tracks.

    Sizzlin'!!!!!!!
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    Jun 06, 2011 4:32 PM GMT
    Cash saidThere is nothing hotter than two guys having a knife fight over you down by the train tracks.

    Sizzlin'!!!!!!!


    This.

    Yes it is trashy, but trashy guys turn me on.
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    Jun 06, 2011 4:36 PM GMT
    No i wouldn't fight over a man who probably ain't even cute so nah i let him go and find me someone else
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    Jun 06, 2011 4:43 PM GMT
    I'd fight if he looked just like Matt Damon. Otherwise I'm not trying to sweat my edges out.
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    Jun 06, 2011 4:52 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidI think this may qualify as the longest run-on sentence in the world.


    Agreed.
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    Jun 06, 2011 5:15 PM GMT
    I would fight FOR MY guy never OVER A guy.