Guys who get their nut then do nothing to get you off.

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    Jun 06, 2011 8:47 AM GMT
    What do you think about guys who get their nut and don't want to help get you off. Are you being used or do you need to hurry up and get yours if you know he's like this. Then just stop and do him the same way?
  • fitnesshound

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    Jun 06, 2011 12:03 PM GMT
    But, I've known some guys who are perfectly happy to get you off and who then prefer not to get off themselves...they save up the sexual energy and/or get off on the power exchange aspect.

    But for guys who are dating/sexing outside of a BDSM context, I think guys who get their nut and leave you hanging are just rude and self-centered. It's always better to engage the other person and make sure everyone's got what they want at the end of the encounter, right?
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    Jun 07, 2011 1:37 AM GMT
    It depends on the situation. Many's the time when both guys understand it's a "blow and go" - I blow, he goes. Unless he wants to get me off as well that's how it's left.
    Then there are other times when the other guy's energy level is higher. In other words, his high fitness level or relative lack of years means he can reload and be ready for another round in short order. That's when I chill after the first round instead of nut, then join in climaxing at the end of Round 2.
    What gets ME steamed is when you rock your skills on somebody for some time (in some cases over two hours) only to have him then say, "I don't wanna cum right now." icon_evil.gif