Lilmaninsc-- Signing Off

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    Apr 13, 2008 4:23 PM GMT
    Hey guys, I'll be deleting my name tomorrow. I decided to tell everyone goodbye and not to just disappear like some people do. I have some things that need to be taken care of.. just some personal matters. I don't believe I can be here anymore, nothing personal. I have met some amazing guys on here that have really touched my life, but I just have some things going on right now. I really appreciate all the guys that I have become friends with, and I will not forget you. To those that I do know, I hope you all do well in everything that you do and good luck in life. I don't know if I will be back or not, but if you ever want to talk. Just get at me before I delete my name and I will give you my personal email.

    Have a great one fellas.

    Zack
  • ShawnTX

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    Apr 13, 2008 4:24 PM GMT
    Take care and best of luck with whatever you need to take care of.
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    Apr 13, 2008 5:26 PM GMT
    good luck man.
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    Apr 13, 2008 5:27 PM GMT
    Hmmm... looks like my facebook friends are hiding something from me... icon_mad.gif
    Well, you know where to find us...Good luck!!! xx
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    Apr 13, 2008 5:32 PM GMT
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    Sorry to hear you are going, hopefully the personal stuff will turn out all right.

    Best wishes.

    Jonathan
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Apr 13, 2008 6:23 PM GMT
    Best of luck. I hope the things you need to sort, work out the way you want.

    Mike
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    Apr 13, 2008 8:34 PM GMT
    All the best, monsieur. I shall miss you terribly, but wine will help.
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    Apr 13, 2008 8:59 PM GMT
    zack - good luck. your kind heart and generous spirit will be sorely missed around here! i hope everything turns out the way you want.

    best of luck! ;)
  • RSportsguy

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    Apr 13, 2008 9:02 PM GMT
    Good luck Zack! I hope everything works out for you! Please come back when you are ready to.
  • EricLA

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    Apr 13, 2008 10:07 PM GMT
    Zack,

    It sure seems like an extreme step, you can always go away and come back any time you want. But, I'm sure you have your reasons. You've contributed a lot to Real Jock, and I know you will be missed by many. I know I wait for your return.

    All the best to you. I hope you resolve what you need to in the best and most timely way possible.

    Eric
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    Apr 13, 2008 10:14 PM GMT
    boy...at this rate, all we're gonna have left on RJ are canadians and the odd middle easterner or two. .... icon_eek.gif

    Good luck Zack
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    Apr 13, 2008 10:27 PM GMT
    Take care Zack !!! "Ya'll come back now ya'hear" !!!! (I'm a southerner so no pun intended) Seriously do come back !!!
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    Apr 13, 2008 10:29 PM GMT
    Caslon saidboy...at this rate, all we're gonna have left on RJ are canadians and the odd middle easterner or two. .... icon_eek.gif

    Good luck Zack


    It seems my plan is working perfectly, mwahahahaha!
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    Apr 13, 2008 10:32 PM GMT
    ShawnTO said[quote][cite]Caslon said[/cite]boy...at this rate, all we're gonna have left on RJ are canadians and the odd middle easterner or two. .... icon_eek.gif

    Good luck Zack


    It seems my plan is working perfectly, mwahahahaha![/quote]

    I should have known you were behind this! .... icon_surprised.gif

    Damn you, ShawnTO! ...said in my best Jon Stewart voice while looking up at the ceiling cam and shaking my fist
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    Apr 13, 2008 10:38 PM GMT
    Bye Zack, enjoyed reading your forums and stuff...I hope you come back soon and everything works out! Peace!
  • iHavok

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    Apr 13, 2008 11:18 PM GMT
    This fucking SUCKS!

    and i have no clue what to do about it.
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    Apr 13, 2008 11:26 PM GMT
    Zack, I am sure you have your reasons.

    But why cancel your membership? You can make in inactive, or you can just lay low, and stay away for weeks, or months. No one is going to cancel your membership for inactivity, after all.

    You haven't signed a committment with RJ.

    Seems a trifle dramatic, is all. I guess that's OK, we are gay, after all. (Sighing heavily, and placing hand on brow!!) icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 13, 2008 11:46 PM GMT
    Zack,
    I respect your choice, although I disagree with it.
    I remember the thread you started after your step-brothers and dad beat you up several weeks ago. I hope that you have healed and that your disappearance from RJ is an effort to improve your self and put yourself in a safer position away from such violent and ignorant homophobia. Be well, take care and come back when/if the time is right.
    Sporty_G aka GARY


    Some "traveling music" for you...."Frank Sinatra-My Way"

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    Apr 14, 2008 1:33 AM GMT
    Best wishes, my friend.

    It somehow felt appropriate to write down this quote, which I love:

    Robert Frost
    The woods are lovely, dark and deep,
    But I have promises to keep,
    And miles to go before I sleep,
    And miles to go before I sleep.

    But most importantly, if and when you decide to come back, there will be lots of open arms welcoming you back (of course, it'll never be the same as is the nature of the internet ... hope I'll be around if/when you do ... who knows, I might decide I need to do the same thing as you one day).
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    Apr 14, 2008 1:39 AM GMT
    Ha ha, sounds like a bad joke.icon_lol.gif

    Why would someone go to all the trouble of saying a formal good bye to thousands of people he's never met?icon_rolleyes.gif

    Good luck but just a little too over dramatic for my taste.
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    Apr 14, 2008 1:47 AM GMT
    RyanOji saidHa ha, sounds like a bad joke.icon_lol.gif

    Why would someone go to all the trouble of saying a formal good bye to thousands of people he's never met?icon_rolleyes.gif

    Good luck but just a little too over dramatic for my taste.


    i don't think anyone asked what your opinion was, dude.



    good luck lilmaninsc. enjoyed the couple of times i got to chat with you. hope to see you around in the future.
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    Apr 14, 2008 2:12 AM GMT
    Zack,

    Please re-think your decision to leave RJ. You have contributed substantially here - guys have learned from you - especially the younger guys who have tough situations with their families or have thought about dying. Stay on - or at least, come back soon - we are your friends - we care about what you're going through.

    Best of everything to you Zack.


    Gregg
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    Apr 14, 2008 8:50 AM GMT
    Bye lilmaninsc, and best of luck. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 14, 2008 9:17 PM GMT
    EDIT: This post is in reply to a poster (and his comments) since removed from the site.

    Many of us do know each other, jackass! Some in real life and some through frequent conversations here.

    You just signed up and felt the need to make this your inaugural post? Go away!
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    Apr 14, 2008 9:23 PM GMT
    I'm really going to miss that guy...