No one else can solve any problem between me and my ( future partner .. i dont have ) coz i cant take the risk of egaging someone in our relationship stuff, so it totally depends on me .,, if i really love him and he satisfies me so ( have to keep this in mind ,, NO ONE IS PERFECT ) so i would do anything to make it work..
i will do my best to forgive him if he's done wrong to me .
avoid anything that may bother him
i would make a small party for him and make it as a surprise and try to renew our love and remind him of some of our nice moments and hard times as well..
anyway .. it depends on you .. the counsellors dont know your partner as you do ,, believe me you are the only one who can make it work .. lol