My bestfriend is setting me on a blind date!!!!

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    Jun 08, 2011 2:17 PM GMT
    one of my bffs is setting me on a blind date what if things go wrong what should I do???
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    Jun 08, 2011 2:25 PM GMT
    Eat him.
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    Jun 08, 2011 3:31 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidEat him.


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    Jun 08, 2011 3:34 PM GMT
    wt kind of wrong thingz u wt to say,is he gay, ad u also gay than no prpblem,coz he is your best frend,thn he understand u ad yur feelingz as wel as,bt one of u both r no gay than the problem!
  • SF2PS

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    Jun 08, 2011 4:03 PM GMT
    Make sure it is for coffee or a drink after work. It will let you control how much time you spend together.

    Blind dates for dinner, or even lunch, can be incredibly awkward.

    If you decide it is a bad match, you can make an exit and still be gracious about it (thank him for making time for example). Don't lead him on . . . you will just make both of you unhappy.

    Hopefully you will just click . . . good luck.
  • jmanorlando

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    Jun 08, 2011 4:11 PM GMT
    Umm, it's a blind date and that means your friend thinks you "might" connect with this person and not that you must connect with this person.

    So barring that you don't jump right into bed with him, here are your end of evening options.

    a. I had fun tonight and it was great meeting you, but I don't think we are a dating match.
    b. I had fun tonight and would you like to hang out again as friends. (ie - states no romantic interest at this time)
    c. (Not interested) I was great meeting you, good luck with everything (or It was nice meeting you, I am sure I'll see you around.)
    d. Interested - ... Ask for another date!

    Basically, be honest and be open to a fun night and not thinking you are in a relationship.

    Good luck