I'm sick of guys wasting my time with their BULL shit..

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    Jun 08, 2011 5:43 PM GMT
    So last night, this guy who I've met like like 2 times already called me up. He also messaged me on connexion asking me for a 'movie date'. Well he goes on and on about how I didn't call him after the last time we had sex. I was like, well because the past 4-5 times I asked to see you before we had sex, you kept giving me excuses not to meet so I wasn't just going to keep running after you. And then, YOU were the one who called me 2-3 times late, late at night asking to meet for obviously sex and you initiated it.

    So, we then decided to meet up. I get there we chillin for a bit and he's like, let's go to your place. So we come to my place, it's like 1130 at night. We get here, and this mother fucker just goes to bed. We cuddled and made out for a bit but no sex. Next morning 8 am he talking about he wants to go home. I'm like, what? You don't feel comfortable here? He's like...no. I'm like, then why the fuck did I even waste my time bringing you all the way out here? So I just take him home all the way back downtown and drop him off.

    Plan B. A guy I was chatting with for a couple days wanted to meet up this morning. Now, I didn't think he was all THAT reliable because he has a girlfriend. But he hit me up first and initiated the whole scenario about meeting up. And it was just going to be sex anyway.

    Well, I get to this mother fucker's apartment..I was already suspicious because he gave me the address without a unit number. So I meet him outside, we go up to his place and he just steady texting on his phone to his "girlfriend". I'm like, "you sure are into your phone, whats up?" He's then like, "Oh I'm just nervous." Couple more minutes go by, small talk and then he's like, "I don't think it's going to work I'm too nervous."

    So then he walks me downstairs talking about, "oh I'm sorry I hope you n..." I cut him off, DON'T EVEN EXPLAIN. I don't even want to hear it. I told him that's why I don't come to see guys anyway like this unless I'm already in the area which I happened to be in case you decide to be a flake.

    He's just lucky I'm not some vindictive bitch and took down his apartment number and mailed all the nude photos and email conversation we had over the last couple days to his girlfriend. Because I really would have. But I just thought to myself, next...next mother fucker next!

    I tell you, guys don't know what they want. They need to be sent for psychiatric evaluation and get their minds right before they get on this computer and try to involve other people into their fucked up worlds...
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    Jun 08, 2011 5:51 PM GMT
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    Jun 08, 2011 6:30 PM GMT
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  • SwimBIkeRun94...

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    Jun 08, 2011 9:10 PM GMT
    I mean, it sucks...but if you're just after dick, there's plenty. Move on to the next guy and don't dwell on the others. Besides, the sex probably would have been awful anyway.

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    Jun 09, 2011 1:17 AM GMT
    SwimBIkeRun949 saidI mean, it sucks...but if you're just after dick, there's plenty. Move on to the next guy and don't dwell on the others. Besides, the sex probably would have been awful anyway.



    LOL, good one. I mean I'm not just after dick but it was just something to do for the time being.

    But I really get irked when guys want me to come over and then I get there and it's a whole different story. They text and email me to death, "you interested?" "STILL COMING?" "YOU THERE?" "HELLO?" 'HI". I had to go thru and delete all the emails this guy was sending back and forth to me just yesterday.

    Sometimes I think mother fuckers like that be on some weird attention trip. They not serious about actually doing anything but they like to just meet guys and waste their time.

    That's why 99.9% of the time I never travel to a guy especially if it's for a hookup. And like I mentioned, it's only if I'm already in the area so I don't waste my gas. I know I'm serious, but you? Not too sure about. So you need to find a way to come to me. That's the only way. Because mother fuckers don't appreciate it when you go out your way to see them.

    So for now on..no more going to their place. There's only 1 rule to that exception which I will refrain from mentioning.

  • brendanmuscle...

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    Jun 09, 2011 4:55 AM GMT
    i agree with some of the other posts, you should just move on and not worry about this guy. Truthfully you'll probably have to meet a lot of frogs before you meet your prince... it takes time but it will happen, so don't worry and try to take it in stride.
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    Jun 10, 2011 5:39 AM GMT
    Bitch! Get over it, we are still men, boys whatever! It's the Testosterone!
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    Jun 10, 2011 5:05 PM GMT
    brendanmuscles saidi agree with some of the other posts, you should just move on and not worry about this guy. Truthfully you'll probably have to meet a lot of frogs before you meet your prince... it takes time but it will happen, so don't worry and try to take it in stride.


    awww, that's sweet thanks for the encouragement.

    Yeah it's not everyday that I go to meet someone and they flake. But I just think some of these guys talk a lot of crap but don't live up to it.
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    Jun 11, 2011 4:44 AM GMT
    How horrible! Guys waste your time?! Try girls, they waste even more time. With guys at least you have a bigger chance of getting laid on the first date.